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sheila
December 2nd, 2005, 10:15 AM
To celebrate our 2nd birthday, here's a little song. It might take a little while to sing it all the way through, but I think you know the tune.

On the twelfth day of OUAL, my community gave to me:

Twelve days 'til Christmas,
Eleven types of journals,
Ten Gymboree threads,
Nine months of pregnancy,
Eight cycle buddies,
Seven(or so) real fruitcakes,
Six month span playgroups,
Five new post searches,
Four (hundred) moved threads, (thanks, Dennis!)
Three charity auctions,
Two token males,
and the freedom to speak more freely!


That's right, folks. Only 12 more days until Christmas. What are you doing here? Don't you have some shopping to do? Cards to send out? Cookies to bake? Friends to visit?

Oh wait, friends to visit is a big part of why you are here, isn't it? Well, in that case, enjoy the holidays with your friends and family here at OUAL. And thanks for being around for the past 2 years to be a part of my family.

And Happy 2nd Birthday Coley! :cake:

Eleven types of journals
It seems like there must be a journal type for everyone who would like to have one, since we have so many. But I suppose that helps keep things a little organized. Eleven. Wow, it seems like so many. And they certainly do get used!

Ten Gymboree threads
Between the 9 addicts & fans threads and the pictures of kids wearing their Gymbo, there are 10 threads devoted to the clothes. Amazing. That means that there are almost 10,000 posts about Gymboree on the site. And I'm not even counting all the ISO lists, for sale and other miscellaneous threads about it! The Gymboree threads have been one of the most productive ways for us to find new members, too.



Nine months of pregnancy
Pretty straightforward this morning-- 9 months of pregnancy is what got most of us here. Whether wanting the 9 months, experiencing it or having experienced it all. I think its great that while we have some members without kids, the majority of us are moms who who have been there.

Eight cycle buddies
The number at any moment does tend to change, but there were 8 when I checked for this thread. Its a good number, I think-- not too many too many to keep up with, not too few to make it feel like people are on their own. And the really great thing is that the 8 people tend to change pretty regurlarly because they are a pretty successful group. :aok:



Seven(or so) real fruitcakes
To quote Jimmy Buffet:
Half baked cookies in the oven, Half baked people on the bus, There's a little bit of fruitcake left in everyone of us

Yup, we've got some fruitcakes here. :crazy: And even if you can think of a few that you would award the fruitcake status, be sure that you are making someone else's list. It's all relative, and I am sure we all make the list somewhere. Being able to consider some of our friends fruitckaes is part of what keeps this place interesting and fun.

To quote Jimmy again:
Stay in touch with [your] insanity, Really is the only way, It's a jungle out there kiddies, Have a very fruitful day


Six month span playgroups
We started combining playgroups because we didn't have enough people to make 2 month span groups work as well as we would have liked them to. And I think it has worked out very well for us. In addition to having more moms and babies to call a part of our group, it makes it a little more fun. Switching to 3 month span pregnancy groups has helped as well. 3 is a magic number with pregnancy, so it seems logical that a pregnancy group should span 3 months.

I think that having a larger span in the groups has also made it easier to see life beyond the playgroup. It is a wonderful home base, but it seems much easier for people to use that base as a way to be more active on the main parts of the board. And because they are not so insular, it makes it easier for other people to offer their advice, congratulations or condolences as the situation warrants.



Five new post searches,New Posts, New Posts (non journal), Today's New Posts, Today's New Posts (non journal) and Not many replies. So many ways to find new posts, so little time! :lol:

We are the only site who offers the non-journal post search, and I'm a little proud that we have it. Its a handy feature, and I think it helps keep the main part of the board more active.


Four (hundred) moved threads, (thanks, Dennis!)
So many threads to move, to close, to edit.... Thanks to Dennis and all the mods who help make this place run a little more smoothly. Dennis gets the shout out because he took on moving things from The Junk Drawer to the more appropriate forums, but really all the mods deserve a round of applause.

For the most part, we are pretty relaxed about things here. Individual members can close their own journals and B/S/T threads when they are done with them, and we don't really close other threads (even if the OP requests it) because I think its better to let things run their course. But that still leaves a good bit of administration and general cleanup for the mods. The spam alone at certain times keeps everyone hopping.

Thanks again to the mods who help this place run as smoothly as it does. :rahrah:




Three charity auctions
Last Christmas, we had two Charity Auctions to raise money to buy gifts for kids in the Georgia Foster care program, and this spring we had another auction to raise money for our March of Dimes Walk America team. All in all, we raised over $2,500 for Charity. Not to shabby at all. It really is wonderful to see a community like ours come together and do something so great for people who need it. And it was fun, too.

This year, we aren't having an auction. Instead, we've chosen Toys for Tots (http://www.toysfortots.org/home/) as our charity of the season and will be keeping track (http://www.onceuponalife.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23491) of how many toys we can donate as a group. Go OUAL!! :santa:



Two token males
Dennis and Roger. We love them. They add something special to our community of women. But no matter how much we love them, they are still and will always be our token males. What would we bewithout them?




The freedom to speak more freely!
Kind of an odd place to start, but it goes back the beginning of OUAL, when most of us came from a place where what we could say was a little more restricted. We wanted to provide a more relaxed atmosphere around here, so we decided that some swearing would be ok, and it would be ok to have more heated arguments. It hasn't always been smooth sailing, but on the whole, I think we are working it out pretty well. Sometimes people cross a line, but usually all it takes is a gentle reminder that there are things that are better kept to yourself, or that some comments need to be kept in their appropriate places. Overall, I think that free speech is a good thing.

TtownAnne
December 2nd, 2005, 12:10 PM
:ura1: :victory: :yippee: :clap:

Karri
December 2nd, 2005, 01:33 PM
I likey :biggrin:

Stacey
December 2nd, 2005, 01:44 PM
Happy Birthday to us! :supergrin

I like it, Sheila. :aok:

Trish
December 2nd, 2005, 01:46 PM
Love it! :aok:

Nocona
December 2nd, 2005, 01:54 PM
:cake: Happy Birthday, OUAL :)

Nichole
December 2nd, 2005, 02:41 PM
Cool! Happy 2nd Birthday, OUAL! :balloons:

Dawn
December 2nd, 2005, 02:46 PM
:nod: Cool! That's great! :up:

:balloons: Happy Birthday OUAL!! :balloons: :cake: You da bomb!
Go OUAL... get busy, it's your birthday! :lol:

Theresa
December 2nd, 2005, 03:16 PM
Happy Birthday, OUAL! :balloons:

stass
December 2nd, 2005, 04:57 PM
Thanks for letting us swear!:bday:

Jayne
December 2nd, 2005, 07:26 PM
Awesome!


(Question..should it read On instead of ONE?)

Jayne

MrsPeacefrog
December 2nd, 2005, 07:30 PM
:bday: OUAL! what a great place its been!! :hug99:

Clare
December 2nd, 2005, 07:45 PM
Where's the rest of the song? :lol:

I like so far :biggrin:

I've been talking to some old friends lately, who may be resubscribing here because they are becoming disillusioned with another site :aok: I reminded them that nothing like that (policing, shutting down threads etc) happens here :)

Ami
December 2nd, 2005, 07:50 PM
:bday: OUAL.

Thanks again for all you do around here Sheila.

sheila
December 2nd, 2005, 08:22 PM
Where's the rest of the song? :lol:


It will take 12 days. :biggrin:

gulp!
December 2nd, 2005, 08:26 PM
Happy Birthday, OUAL! :balloons:

Dennis
December 2nd, 2005, 08:56 PM
Happy birthday!

Mandi
December 2nd, 2005, 08:58 PM
:party2: Happy Birthday, OUAL! :grouphugg

Suzi
December 3rd, 2005, 01:10 AM
:party2: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! :bday:

Dennis
December 3rd, 2005, 08:25 AM
I've never been called a token before. I feel so honored ;)

Lynn
December 3rd, 2005, 08:29 AM
:yippee: for our token males! :bowdown:

sheila
December 3rd, 2005, 10:16 AM
Bretta-- my plan is to continue editing the first post, so that at the end, all 12 days and the explanations will be in that first post.

Bev
December 3rd, 2005, 10:21 AM
:bday: Thanks for giving birth to OUAL. :) Where would we be without it? Probably doing something boring and productive. :lol:

Love the song so far!

Nichole
December 3rd, 2005, 10:28 AM
:clap: for our token males! :lol: No really, you guys provide an interesting perspective to a lot of our discussions. :)

I'd just like to say again how great this place is! I love that we have so much freedom to discuss things like adults without the fear of threads being locked down or people being banned. I'm happy to have a place where we're treated like adults and aren't babysat by the admins. Thanks, guys! :aok:

Tab
December 3rd, 2005, 10:34 AM
I'd just like to say again how great this place is! I love that we have so much freedom to discuss things like adults without the fear of threads being locked down or people being banned. I'm happy to have a place where we're treated like adults and aren't babysat by the admins. Thanks, guys! :aok:


Yeah I agree with Nicole !!!

:bday: OUAL !!!!

I'm glad my sis told me about this site , I love it and love being here with everyone !!!! :thumbsup:

Jen
December 3rd, 2005, 12:32 PM
:rahrah: Happy 2nd Birthday OUAL :bday:

Thanks Sheila for your continued diplomacy, tact, and maturity. All your work makes this a place where everyone can have fun.

Bridget
December 3rd, 2005, 03:55 PM
I think they should/could write a book on their inside knowledge on the secret lives of women. And although I don't really know the history behind Roger's word, I think they should definitely name it:

Vagitarians
Real Men on Real Women

:yippee: for our token males! :bowdown:

I LOVE that there are guys on here!

~Andrea~
December 3rd, 2005, 10:03 PM
:aok: very cool!!

Hilary
December 3rd, 2005, 10:12 PM
Happy 2nd Birthday, OUAL! :bday:

sheila
December 5th, 2005, 08:18 AM
*day 4 posted*

Brookamy
December 5th, 2005, 03:57 PM
Happy 2nd Birthday OUAL! :party3:

~Deborah~
December 5th, 2005, 05:10 PM
We rock :dude:

Clare
December 5th, 2005, 05:29 PM
I didn't even know that we had mods :lol:

Mandi
December 5th, 2005, 05:39 PM
That's what makes it so great, Clare. They aren't overpowering, closing down crap or telling people what to do or say. That's what makes this place rock. :aok:

Love day 4. :lol: I think it'd be more like 4 (thousand) threads moved, but whatever. :lol: And damn Dennis, you're special. You get mentioned twice in the song!

Clare
December 5th, 2005, 05:51 PM
That's what makes it so great, Clare. They aren't overpowering, closing down crap or telling people what to do or say. That's what makes this place rock. :aok:



I know! :) I mean, I know that Dennis moves stuff around, but I didn't know he was officially a mod. And I wouldn't have a clue who the others are. That's what I love so much about this place :biggrin:

Dennis
December 5th, 2005, 10:14 PM
And damn Dennis, you're special. You get mentioned twice in the song!

I know! I feel so loved!

sheila
December 6th, 2005, 08:47 AM
Day 5 posted: Five new post searches

Hilary
December 6th, 2005, 01:00 PM
We are the only site who offers the non-journal post search, and I'm a little proud that we have it. Its a handy feature, and I think it helps keep the main part of the board more active. [/color][/color][/font][/size][/font]
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This is my favorite feature of OUAL!

Mandi
December 6th, 2005, 01:03 PM
Mine too. The new posts non journal feature kicks ass. :nod:

Melissa
December 6th, 2005, 03:20 PM
I LOVE LOVE LOVE the new posts features!!!! I use it everytime I log in. It is one of my favorite things!

Clare
December 6th, 2005, 06:13 PM
Mine too. The new posts non journal feature kicks ass. :nod:

Ditto. It's the first place I go when I log on :)

Mrs. Shae
December 6th, 2005, 10:26 PM
We are the only site who offers the non-journal post search, and I'm a little proud that we have it. Its a handy feature, and I think it helps keep the main part of the board more active.

this and the fact that this is *one* board for those with and without children makes it #1 in my book ... the Token Males are another plus :biggrin:

sheila
December 7th, 2005, 07:47 AM
Day 6, halfway done: Six month span playgroups

Karri
December 7th, 2005, 07:57 AM
sheila - it still says "on the 5th day"....

Jen
December 7th, 2005, 11:55 PM
I can't wait to hear more!

sheila
December 8th, 2005, 08:41 AM
Day 7: Seven(or so) real fruitcakes

sheila
December 9th, 2005, 06:28 AM
Day 8: Eight Cycle Buddies

Karri
December 9th, 2005, 10:20 AM
Hey Sheila -
Its day 8 and it still says:
On the seventh day of OUAL, my community gave to me:

Mandi
December 9th, 2005, 11:43 AM
Looks great... but eighth is spelled wrong. ;)

sheila
December 9th, 2005, 12:04 PM
I knew it looked wrong

sheila
December 12th, 2005, 08:13 AM
10 Gymboree threads,
11 Types of Journals

Denise
December 14th, 2005, 04:41 PM
Im waiting for the 12th day! :biggrin:

sheila
December 14th, 2005, 04:47 PM
12 days left until Christmas. It was posted yesterday.

Denise
December 14th, 2005, 05:00 PM
:doh: Duh!

Stacey
December 19th, 2005, 01:37 AM
Aww, thanks for the birthday mention for Cole. I thought of OUAL's birthday on Cole's birthday too. If I would have had internet access on vacation I would have come and posted here. :)

reality bites sometimes
December 21st, 2005, 06:02 PM
Happy Birthday OUAL, from the newbie,

Ovations for the poem/song. Very well done.

Sandie