I noticed that the other thread ends with December so I was wondering if anyone was going for IVF or FET's for the next few months.

We will be doing our FET in January. I should start bcp's in a week or so. We have 9 embies we'll be defrosting. They will be putting back two day five embies this time.

We have one son from a previous IVF where they transferred three day three embies. He will be two in Feburary.

TTC has been a really rough road for us as it has been for all of us. In the last year we've had five m/c's. They can't figure out why so the only thing they can think of is some genetic problem with the embies. They can do testing but it is $3500 and we don't have the money. This FET we'll do without it but if we aren't successful we'll do it with a fresh IVF. but it will be several months before we do that. This last year has really been tough on us and we need a break from it all. Not to mention we'll be moving into our brand new house in a couple weeks. So we have lots going on.

So anyone doing IVF/FET in the next few months post your stories here. I could really use some good company!

Sarah

Hey Sarah! I have my RE appt today to discuss doing FET. We have an almost 10 month old IVF baby. I'm sorry for all the m/c you've had. We have 7 frozen embies...

Amanda

HI Amanda! I'm glad I'm not alone. I wish you the best of luck today at your appointment. Make sure you come back here and post how it went!
Sarah

I'll be calling the RE first thing next year and we'll be doing IVF for a second time (first one didn't work).

One way or the other, I will be right here with y'all!! :nod:

Hi Ana, I'm so sorry your first didn't work. I hope that this second one is the trick for you!

Suzi, thanks! Hopefully you can be our model pg lady! ;)


I'm just waiting for af to show to start bcp and get my schedule. I swear it seems to be taking forever this time. And I'm not late or anything just anxious. I just want to get this over with. Hopefully it will be the last time we need to even think about all of this!

sarah

Sarah and Ana - I'm happy to have company!!!
Suzi - You're always such a great support! Good luck with your retrieval today!

I'm going to sound a little whiney which isn't usually like me but I guess I'm entitled once in a while. My appt went well and it seems that things are moving a little faster than I expected. My vision for how things would work was as follows... I'm finally have cycles for the first time in my life (amazing how pregnancy could fix 20+ years of anovulation). My cycles are quite long (50 days or so) but I really think I'm ovulating, etc. I was hoping to have a few cycles to try to get PG on our own (and in my fantasy world it would work and I could cancel my RE appt!). I don't think this is going to happen. For a variety of reasons, it's better for us to start the FET process right away. I know I should be excited but I have to confess that I feel a little down. I'm just not looking forward to weeks and weeks and weeks of IM injections! My husband is all excited about the prospect of me being PG again (and I'm excited about that part) but he's not the one who has to be stuck. Plus with FETs, you're on the PIO even longer than a fresh cycle. (ok, that was the whiney part).
My protocol will be as follows... I'm starting provera today. I'm about mid-cycle but since my cycles are SO long, my RE would rather just bring on AF with provera. After 10 days of provera, I wait for AF. Then I call on CD1 to schedule a hysterosonogram sometimes between CD 5-10. Assuming the hysterosono is ok, I then wait for AF again (or take more provera). On CD1 I call to find out when I go in for a baseline. Then I do twice weekly Estradiol injections with twice weekly blood tests (I don't remember if I start the PIO right away or after the transfer). Two to three weeks later I have a sono and then schedule the transfer. We're only planning to transfer 2 embryos.
Now good news: Of our 7 embryos, 6 are 8-celled embryos and one is 4-cell (probably not a good embryo but it looked viable so they froze it). I don't know the "scores" on the embryos but my RE was very, very pleased when he looked at the report (and I don't really want to know the grades b/c it doesn't really matter). He says they get about a 75% salvage rate with defrosting embryos so we may have to defrost more than 2 to get 2 good ones but I think we're still in good shape.
Anyway, I'm trying to get myself psyched up for this as I know I'll be very glad when I have a beautiful baby in my arms. And I LOVED being pregnant with Nathaniel so I'm excited for that, too.
Forgive my whininess. I know that I've been blessed in so many ways, despite our IF issues...

Amanda

Hey don't feel bad about getting things out. That is what this is for! You get out anything you don't like and never feel bad about it. It's good that they will bring on af now so you don't have to wait another month for her to show. Hopefully it will go so well it will be the last time you'll need the PIO!(and it is taken after transfer) I haven't been told I'd be on it longer than a fresh cycle. You only need progesterone until a certain week(week 16 if my memory serves me) Because then they placenta really takes over. I'm pretty sure that is what I was told last time, but that was 2 1/2 years ago!

I'm still sitting here waiting for af so I can start bcp. I should get it Thursday. I'm getting very nervous and anxious for this cycle. I so badly want another child. But given all the m/c's I am scared to death to be pg. What if it ends just the way all the other five have? I hope that the injections will do something different so my body will hold the babies.

I hate the PIO too. The last time I had nerve damage and my tissue hurt for a good 6-8 months and I also had numb skin just above the sore tissue/muscle. Course Brandon gave me the shots and he always felt so bad so sometimes he didn't get it in right. This time hopefully it will be better.

Sarah

Sarah - I know. The PIO sucks! I took it until about week 10 with Nathaniel. I don't know if the Estradiol injections are as bad but at least that's only twice a week. I've been very lucky b/c when I got PG with Nathaniel, everything went well. I feel so bad that you've had so many m/c. That must really be heartbreaking.

Amanda

I've never had to take the Estradiol, I'll be taking lupron daily. I'm sure it is just a sub q shot and those don't really hurt at all. Those I don't mind one bit, it's the big pio's that suck so bad!

My ivf went fine with Riley. I had no problems with carrying him. But since then I have lost every single one. We were never able to get pg on our own since my tubes were blocked. But just being pg helped that but now I just can't hold them. And it is so frustrating that they can't really figure out why. They have ideas but nothing firm. It is pretty heartbreaking. And I know it still hasn't fully set in that we have lost that many. It really just feels like a dream. I know it's there and if someone mentions anything and catches me off guard I start crying right away, instantly. Most times I'm ok talking about it. But sometimes I still lose it. I guess it will just take time. I just can't believe I've been pg 5 times in a year and lost every single one of the babies. It's so unreal. I don't want this to be my life. But I guess we don't really get to choose!

Sarah

OMG Sarah! I can't believe they don't know why this keeps happening. I hope this time you get your miracle!
The Estradiol is also IM...

Amanda

Ah that sucks. Hopefully you won't be taking them too long! Will they give you lupron too?

Yes it's really hard not really knowing the problem. They've done all kinds of tests and all come back fine. They want to do PGD a genetic testing on the embies since that might be the problem but it is $3500 and the insurance won't pay for it. We really don't have the money for it at all. so we'll try this FET without it and if it doesn't work out then our next fresh IVF will have the PGD done. Hopefully we won't need it though.

Sarah

At least the Estradiol is only twice a week. I think I have to take it for a few weeks after the transfer.
That stinks about the genetic testing being so expensive.

Amanda

Hi ladies..

I'll be starting Lupron in 1 week for our 6th IVF (2 canceled FETs)...
Am a wee bit nervous this time because of all the estrodial I'll be taking.
Hope I'm not terribly sick.

Good luck Brenda! Hope you don't get too sick!

I'll be calling my doctor in a week or so - sometime after the holidays. I'll probably have to meet with her first and go over what we might do differently this time around. I'll let you guys know.

Hey Brenda and Ana!
I'm still waiting for AF. I took 10 days of provera and have been waiting for AF for over a week. Really annoying! Especially b/c I was hoping to schedule my hysterosonogram during my vacation (which ends today). What can you do!

Amanda

Hi Ladies. :wavey: Can I join in?


Sarah~I'm so very sorry that this road has been so difficult for you. :sadhug:

I'm not even sure if I'm having another IVF or not, but as you can see from my signature, I've had many and can empathize with everyone who is struggling with IF. :nod: I'm trying naturally right now (what else can I do?) but am trying to change doctors. . .again!!! :furious:

I don't know if another IVF is in my future, but I'd love to hang out with you ladies for support regardless.

And of course, best of luck to all of us in the NEW YEAR!! :party3:

Thanks,

Kimberly

HOORAY Kimberly! So happy to see you!!!

Amanda

I am finally CD1. It took 14 days after finishing provera to get AF. That is definitely a record for me! I have my hysterosonogram scheduled for next Wednesday...

Amanda

Hi everyone. I just finally got internet again since our move!

I just got my tentative schedule from my RE. I will stop bcp and start lupron on the 11th. Af should come around the 14th and 18 days after that we'll do the transfer.

Amanda, looks like I'll be on estrace instead of estridol so I won't have that extra injection. Maybe your RE can give you the pills instead? Also medrol for a few days. I should get my meds in the mail thursday so I can really check it all out then. I was surprised to see the medrol and the estridol. I never took those with my IVF but that was 2 1/2 years ago. I don't know if it is different since this is an FET or if it is just a standard thing now. Who knows.

Friday I will go and transport our 9 embies to the new lab. I have to pick up a tank pick up the embies then drive to the new place again and drop them off. Oh and I need to pay the old lab $200 just to move them. I am so pissed about that. They are holding them hostage to charge such a high fee. I guess they are just mad that our clinic opened their own lab so they don't use them anymore. So this FEt which was supposed to save time, money and stress has been anything but. It is costing us way more than a fresh cycle, my stress is more and with having to run all over my time is more too. I have to drive two hours to the first place and then two hours home. :(

It looks like some of us are very close in cycles. Hopefully we'll get some BFP together too!

Sarah

Sarah, the medrol has always been standard procedure in my IVFs. :dunno: It is a steroid used when ICSI and/or AZH is being used. It is used to stop the mother's immune system from *potentially* rejecting the transferred embryo/s.

Your cycle is so soon - I wish you the best! And trust me...I'd GLADLY do all the running around in the world if it meant we had insurance coverage for IVF! I know it's a hassle but you are very fortunate to have it all paid for!

I took a few days of medrol around the time of my last transfer, too. I had forgotten about that.
My hysterosonogram is today.
Next cycle we start the injections. I'm still not totally clear on the protocol for the FET but I'm going to ask today...

Amanda

Hi Suzi!

I didn't take the medrol for our ivf with Riley. I guess because the only reason we needed it was due to blocked tubes. I didn't seem to have any m/c issues then. Who knows. This time I am glad they are giving it to me. We can use any help we can get! I know we are very lucky to have the coverage. And I am greatful for it. When we first started all this we didn't have it and we were in debt for several years because of it. It is just really frustrating when we have been paying out of pocket for all the frozen fees(insurance won't cover it) to try to save money when it is only costing us a good grand more than what we'd be paying for if we had a fresh cycle. $1K is a ton of money to us, as it is with all of us. we are very strapped so it just makes me nuts to have to pay extra to be driving several hours and they won't cooperate with me. I guess it wouldn't be IF without the stress somewhere! When things settle down, you should write to your congressman or whoever would be best and try to request coverage. That is how it gets started, lots of people writing in then someone will try to do something about it. It may not help you right now, but in the future it might or it would help someone else like you. So many states are doing it now. It might not be too long for yours to kick in. I hope they open their eyes and see how important this is so everyone could have some coverage.

Amanda, looks like we'll be going thru this together. Yeah! It will be nice to have someone right there with me. I hope we both get BFP in the end!

I can't believe how close it is either. I'm getting so nervous. I think I am much more nervous now than I was with our IVF for Riley. We have so many more problems now. Getting pg is only 1/3 of the battle for us. Staying pg is the hardest. I still can't believe we have lost 5 babies in the last year. I am hoping this new year will bring much better times for us. Neither one of us can handle another m/c. I am so scared at the thought of Riley being an only child. I never wanted that for him. I have always wanted at least two children. I had a friend who was an only child and she was so lonely, you could tell in her personality she was an only child. Riley loves other kids and I so badly want him to have a brother or sister to be with. But I also know that I can't handle all these m/c's. It has really changed me. I am so sad inside. Just thinking of where we'd be if we hadn't lost those babies. I'd have a 5 month old right now, I'd be due in another couple months, etc. I try not to think about it but I can't help it. Each baby was a part of me. And with each m/c it brings me further and further down. Our chances of staying pg also fall down. I just wish they could figure this all out so it wouldn't happen anymore.

Wow so sorry for letting that all out. I didn't mean that to be such a long post. anyway, Amanda good luck today, I hope all comes out well!

Sarah

Sarah and Amanda, good luck!

Kim and Suzi, have you guys decided what you're going to do?

I called my doctor yesterday and I have an appointment to meet with her on the 14th. She'll probably have me take Provera because I haven't had AF since before October (I never got it after my failed IVF in October), then probably BCPs and Lupron. We'll see.

I'll keep checking on you guys and update you once I go.

For me, I am just trying to get healthy. I have been sick so often since this last summer and that just isn't like me. Now I am catching everything I come into contact with and I need to get healthy. I don't know the cycles for SURE but if they are similar to the 2004 cycle schedule, we will shoot for a cycle in either April or July.

Until then, I am debating starting up a fertility support group. There isn't a support group here in Wichita and I know that many people never find the BBS for support. I belong to Mothers and More and there is a small group of us who are dealing with IF (about 10 of us) and we meet on an informal basis. Well, I mentioned this to the IVF coord at my center and she jumped all over doing an open group. My center will provide space, any office supplies/mailing literature/stamps, etc., they will spread the word in their IVF education classes, etc. So I am wrestling with if I really want to undertake such a big project. I kinda feel like I am being drawn into it...maybe it's my destiny to help others who are new to IVF? Vick (the IVF coord) said that they have tried to do meetings but they fizzle out eventually. She said they think if the meetings are driven by the participants themselves, they might have better attendance. Hmmm....I just don't know.

As for the meetings (if I coordinate it), I am torn how to set it up. Maybe two separate groups: one for people new to IVF and another group for ongoing IVFs. Then there's the issue of putting people who have done several IVFs and NO success with people like me who already have an IVF baby and are trying for a second. For the new to IVF group I was thinking maybe getting a few people who are experienced with IVF (like me) and dividing into small discussion groups. That way they can ask questions and get answers from people who've been there, done that. You can talk to medical people all day long but there's nothing quite like talking to someone who's lived it. Now I'm just rambling....any suggestions/ideas from you guys are WELCOME!!! I respect everyone's input and would love to hear what you think!

Other than this, we are kinda on hold as far as IVFs go. We MAY do some testing (Clomid Challenge, antral follicle count, etc.) to get an idea where my body is and if it's even reasonable for us to do any more cycles. We will probably start thinking about alternatives, just in case. Just covering our bases.

No matter, I do intend to be around here to lend support where I can. I sure would love to see some more positive news coming from this forum! :nod:

Sarah - I know you've been thru a lot. I totally understand being a bit nervous about this cycle. We'll be with you the whole way!
Ana - Hope the appt goes well!
Suzi - Wow! I think it would be great for you to start a support group!!!
Quick update:
Hysterosonogram went fine. It wasn't very uncomfortable at all (I was worried b/c my HSG was awful!). Everything's normal! Here's the plan... Around CD20 or so I'll start provera for 10 days. Get AF. Go in for a baseline sono and blood work. Start Estradiol injections twice a week. Go in for twice weekly blood draws. After about 2 weeks, have sonogram. If everything's ok, add progesterone injections and schedule embryo transfer.

Amanda

Yeah Amanda for the good hystro! I'm happy to hear everything went fine.

Suzi, I think it is a good idea for you to start a support group. In the beginning I'd keep it to maybe just two groups. Just to see how it goes. If their groups before have fizzled out you don't want to start too many little groups and then have to cut them due to low numbers. Maybe you could do one for newbies and one for the old ivf'ers. I don't even know if there are support groups here but I think that so many people can benefit from it. And who knows it might help you feel better about things too. I think getting those extra tests are a good idea. Any extra info is always good. It might help your next plan of attack if your RE knows more. Hopefully everything will come back fine.

As for me, my FET drugs came today. Well all but two. They forgot the medrol and estrace. Seriously if one thing just fell into place I think I'd fall over. So I am going to call them now to see where they are. The lupron seems to be such a little bottle. I thought I remember having so much more last time. I might give my RE's office a call just to make sure. I don't want to run out. Maybe I just take much less with a frozen since I am not being stimmed? Could very well be. I want to make sure first though. I also would like to double check my lupron date. They've been kinda nuts there and I want to make sure it is right. If all goes well we are looking at a transfer date around January 31 or the first couple days of Feb.

Sarah

Sarah, don't worry about the Lupron bottle - it STILL looks to me like it'll never be enough but we always end up with PLENTY left over. Each shot is SO small...it doesn't take much and lasts forever!!

Sarah - Hooray for the meds arriving!
Suzi - I forgot to send you a message. Wendy (Wendy32501 from UB) wanted to send her regards (she's on BOLU and I am too). She was thinking of you during your last cycle...

Amanda

Oh I MISS Wendy!!! Please tell her that I am thinking of her and her boys and that I hope all is well! There are so many people who went to BOLU from the IF boards (Melissa, Sue, Terri, Kat, Dana, just to name a few) who I miss so much! I keep in contact with a few of them in email but it's so much easier when you are on the same board.

Please tell Wendy that the IF threads are open here and that she can keep up with us here (as if she doesn't have enough to do with two toddlers!). Thanks for passing the message! :bighug:

Suzi - I'll definitely let her know. Her boys are doing well. Evan will be one soon! I'll tell her that she can come visit us here. I ended up joining both places b/c my friends were pretty evenly divided and I didn't know how to choose. Of course, I just lost internet access at work for the next 3 months and I barely have time to keep up now!

Amanda

Hi ladies. I was on vacation with the In-Laws and then a short visit to NYC and now I'm back.

Suzi~You are such a wealth of knowledge and so helpful for everyone in this online group that I think you'd be wonderful at organizing a support group. You'd be helping yourself and tons of other women. I agree that it will probably be a lot of work to set up, but the hope is that eventually, it will be a very positive life experience for you and one that won't really feel like a lot of work. I was in a support group (actually mind/body group) for women dealing with infertility. I found it wonderful and after the formal sessions were done (there were 10 sessions) most of us wanted to continue and had informal gatherings, meeting at restaurants or someone's home. The only reason that it fizzled was because when someone got eventually got pregnant, they would hang out for a few months but then feel uncomfortable coming. Initially as a group however, we did say that none of the women should feel uncomfortable about being pregnant because afterall, we're here to support one another until the end. But of course, as you're nearing the end of your pregnancy, you're less likely to show up for a meeting and then once the baby comes, why would they want to come to a meeting to listen to our sob stories. :dunno: For your group, it would be different because as people leave, you'd still have new women starting. In my support group, most of us had never had children before although there were 2 women who were going through secondary infertility. I was comfortable with it, although there were a few women who weren't and they voiced that privately. . .(for whatever that's worth in figuring out if you will do two groups).

Amanda~Things sound good with you. I was in your neck of the woods this weekend. . .I was staying with my cousin and her husband in Yonkers.

Sarah~Yeah the Lupron bottle is usually small, but it goes a long way. All the best to you this cycle. :crossfing

I called to set up an appointment with yet another Dr. :disbelief: This is the Dr. that BrenS referred me to. He's pretty booked and basically, I'm waiting for his administrative assistant to call me back to set up an appointment. I feel that in the end, it will be worth it to talk to someone else. I'm still feeling very dissed by my Dr. . . . .I'm 39 and according to all records and results, I have a very good chance of getting pregnant and a few months after my 40th birthday (with part of the delay being the ectopic) he tells me that I have a very low chance to getting pregnant!? :furious: It still makes me so mad thinking about how quickly he gave up on me! In the meantime, we're still trying naturally and hoping for the best. :pray:

P.S. to Amanda, have you heard from Melissa?

going to Dr. Keefe? You'll love him!!!! Hope you get in soon, Kim!

Kimberly - Yonkers is very close to me! Maybe next time we can meet up!!! I'll look for Melissa over a BOLU. I don't know if I know her... Hope you like the new doc!

No news for me. Waiting for AF so I can start my cycle. I'm only CD 13 so it'll be a few more weeks...

Amanda

Hi guys!

Well I started my lupron last night. I had one more night of bcp but they were making me very sick. I've never had that before. Every night I'd be up for hours sick as a dog. And Sunday was the worst. So I called yesterday and they told me to skip it and start lurpon right away. So I did and I feel much better. I'm still pretty tired since for over a week now I've been up a good three hours each night but last night I wasn't hardly sick at all. Just felt crappy but not actually sick. Lurpon always seems so small. I swear there was more in there for our IVF. But then again it's been 2 1/2 years so my memory is crap! Shots went fine like riding a bike you don't forget how.

Today I ran and transported the embies to the new lab. All is said and done it took a good 4 1/2 hours in the car and $240 in fees but they are right where they need to be. I wish they still did it at our old hospital. they'd be 45 minutes away instead of 2+ hours. We have to go downtown for the transfer. we are so nervous. If this doesn't work we are in a whole new ballgame. And getting to the very end of our rope with choices. I just can't believe sometimes that this is our life. I was almost 21 when I was first told IVF was our only option. I will be 27 in 4 months man it's been a long time. Most couples our age are just now starting to think about starting their families. And here we are years later still going thru the crap. I really look forward to the day where it isn't constantly on my mind. I know that many of you have been doing this much longer than 6 years so I know you know what I mean. I wish that none of us here had to go thru this all. No one should ever have to go thru IF or a m/c they are both so painful. I hope that all of us will be getting our wishes with beautiful healthy babies in the very near future.

af should come in the next couple days. Hopefully there will be no delays. I think they are shooting for Feb. 3rd last I heard. But it will depend on my RE and my cycle. I'll know more early next week.

Goo, do you mean the Melissa that used to go by Sahara? She is on the home side of the other site. I used to talk to her here and there since we live in the same part of the state but I haven't heard from her in awhile. I'll have to check up on her. If that is who you are talking about last I heard she is doing well. Her and Michael have two dogs now and they are so cute. Her mom had cancer but had surgery and seems to be doing wonderfully.

I'm glad you are able to get a new RE. That is terrible that yours gave up so easily. Hopefully you can get in quick to start up right away. It is so frustrating when you have jerky doctors. :(

Amanda hopefully your cycle will go by fast and you'll start your meds very soon!!

Sarah

Sarah - Sorry you're feeling so rotten. I'm glad the embies are where they need to be! This cycle is coming up so quickly!!! I wish we didn't have to do all this to get PG...

Amanda

I have to get progesterone and HCG drawn soon. Assuming no O (and I know the hcg will be negative) I start provera.

Amanda

Amanda that is great. Hopefully all will look good and you can start your cycle soon!

Sarah

Thanks Sarah! I'll probably get the blood work done today and start provera tomorrow...

Amanda

I started provera today. 10 days of provera then waiting for AF...

Amanda

Yeah for starting provera. Hopefully af will start sooner!!

I got af on Sat. so I am on day 2. Only 16-18 more days until our transfer. I will go in for baselines tomorrow or Tuesday. Then I should get my exact transfer date.

Sarah

That's great Sarah!!!
Day 2 of provera...
We're going to Miami next week!!!

Amanda

BrenS~Yes! Dr. Keefe. My appointment is on Monday, January 31. Thanks for referring him to me. Obviously, I don't know how this will pan out, although I am encouraged because maybe, just maybe, this will do the trick. :crossfing

Amanda~I do plan on visiting my cousins/family more often (it's only about a 3 1/2 hr. trip from Boston) so it would be nice to get together to meet each other. I'll let you know when I'm back again. Oooh, Miami. :thumbsup:

Goo, do you mean the Melissa that used to go by Sahara? She is on the home side of the other site. I used to talk to her here and there since we live in the same part of the state but I haven't heard from her in awhile. I'll have to check up on her. If that is who you are talking about last I heard she is doing well. Her and Michael have two dogs now and they are so cute. Her mom had cancer but had surgery and seems to be doing wonderfully.

Sarah~Yes! That's exactely who I'm talking about. I definitely want to touch base with her. What's the other site again? About 2 weeks before transfer? Wow, that's going fast. :yippee:

Nothing much new for me. I'm glad to have an appointment with a new Dr. coming up. In the meantime, we're still trying on our own. :awink:

Kimberly

Kimberly! I'm going to be there on the 31st too... our embryo transfer is scheduled for that day! Maybe I'll see you. :lol: You'll love Dr. K and his nurse Sue. she's the best nurse I've ever had!

Hey Gals! We are doing yet another IVF. I'm starting stims tomorrow. I'm looking forward to it but at the same time have some little "what-if" type fears. I decided that the only way that I could do another IVF is if we also do PGD. I'm really hoping for a healthy & full pregnancy! Tentative dates: Retrieval 1/30 & Transfer 2/4. I hope this is a lucky thread for all of us!

Pam, that is GREAT news!! You know I am here to see you get a BFP for this cycle!! :nod:

Kimberly - Definitely let me know when you're coming to Westchester again!!! I hope your appt goes well.
Bren - Wow! Your embryo transfer is SOON!
Pam - I hope your cycle goes well!!!

We're recovering from a sick baby (he's better now TG!). I'm on Day 4 of provera. I'll finish the provera while we're in Florida and either get AF on our last day there or the day we get back (or some other day as AF can be quite unpredictable after provera for me!). Then the fun begins!

Amanda

Pam, Good luck. Looks like we will be having our transfers about a week from each other. If this cycle doesn't work or if we have another m/c our next IVF(many months away) will be done with PGD. Hopefully all your embies will look good.:)

Kimberly, good luck at your appointment. Melissa is on www.ourlittleuniverse.com (http://www.ourlittleuniverse.com) on the home side. I have been to her journal in awhile for some reason I'm not getting the notice but I'll run over there tomorrow and let her know you're asking about her.

Well I have our offical transfer date: Feb 11th! A bit later than I thought it would be but that is when they wanted to do it. So I start my estrace on Sunday. I'm very nervous and scared about this cycle. I think I'm more scared of becoming pg than I am of getting a BFN. I'm so scared that something will go wrong again. Hopefully it will be ok. We will be finding out if we are pg two days before Riley's 2nd bday and his party.

Amanda have a great time on vacation!!!

Sarah

Sarah - HOORAY for having a transfer date! Your clinic does it differently from mine. I'll start Estradiol injections after my baseline sono. The injections are twice a week and I go in for bloodwork twice a week. After 4 injections (or 2 weeks) they do a sono and decide when you'll be ready for the transfer. That's when they schedule you.

Amanda

Yeah I guess they all have different ways. Here is my schedule of appointments:

Baseline was Day 3 1/17

start estrace pills 1/23 (they are a progressive dose that changes every few days)

u/s 2/2

u/s 2/4 to make sure all looks good

transfer 2/11

They just need to make sure my lining is thick enough so I don't need to go in so much. If on 2/4 my lining isn't thick enough then they just increase my estrace and check again. But I've never had a problem so much with that so I'm not really expecting a problem. Plus they are really extending my cycle. They are doing the transfer a good 2 weeks after I would have normally naturally O'd. So that is an extra two weeks of building up a lining.

They scheduled everything around my RE's schedule. They schedule my meds by when he will be working to do the transfer.

Sarah

Kimberly! I'm going to be there on the 31st too... our embryo transfer is scheduled for that day! Maybe I'll see you. :lol: You'll love Dr. K and his nurse Sue. she's the best nurse I've ever had!

Wow! Maybe it's a sign! A good sign, that is. :yippee: I'm getting psyched. I just recieved my questionaire packet from NEMC that I will fill out tonight and I was able to get my records BIVF so . . . .so far, so good. I've only had experience with his admistrative person. . .Maria? She's been so nice to me. And of course, all the best of luck to you with this cycle. :crossfing

Pam~All the best! :bighug:

Amanda~Everyone I know has been sick! It's been quite a flu season. I hope your little one is better. . .and I sure hope it's sunny in Florida.

Sarah~I'm confused. . .what is PGD? Thank you so much for the information for Melissa. I'm going to try to track her down. . .but thanks also for letting her know (when you have time). I think I understand where you're coming from. I'd love to be pregnant, but if I have another ectopic, I think I'll just fall apart. So more than meditating upon being pregnant, I mediate that I won't have another ectopic! But stay positive, keep the faith. :nod:

My acupuncturist told me that her most difficult infertility case, found out she was pregnant. My acupuncturist said that this woman was basically asked to stop having IVFs after 3 because she wasn't producing enough follicles. . .I don't think she ever made it to transfer. So, I guess all she was doing was taking the herbs and doing acupuncture treatments and lo' and behold. My acupuncturist also told me that this woman had some similair issues that I do (as far as eastern medicine goes). . .pale tongue, not very strong pulse. . . .so my acupuncturist says that my tongue looks much better and my pulse is much stronger (same changes that occurred with this woman 2 months before she got pregnant). I love my acupuncturist. She said, "This is so frustrating! We have to figure this out and get you pregnant!" I was thrilled that she had the same attitude that I did, and wasn't giving up on me like that other darn Dr. I had! :furious:

So I checked into Dr. Randine Lewis Infertility retreats that she holds in N.C. I got some information sent to me. Holy moly! For a one week session (5-days) plus a 25 day home-based program, it's $3780. However, their approach emphasizes the 90-day (you'd come one week per month for 3 months) program and the cost is $9950. That's a college tuition! Don't get me wrong, you get a lot. . .lodging in what looks like a beautiful spa, one on one with Dr. Lewis with acupucture treatments & herbs. . .3 spa treatments, Asian bodywork, dietary consultation, stress managment, cognitive restructing. . .of course, good and healthy meals. However, it's not about just coming up with that kind of money, but taking that much time off from your job!! It's very, very enticing to me. . .but I know I really couldn't manage it so. . .I BETTER GET PREGNANT SOON! :)

Kimberly

Kimberly, wow that is a lot! I bought her book(my acupuncturist really recommends it) and it has some good things in it. I love going to acupuncture. It has helped me so much. I can really notice a change in my body. I still have lots to correct(well she does:lol:) but we're getting there. Now that we are getting closer she is really going nuts on me. Hopefully it will work. I read somewhere that they have seen a 40% increase in fertility for patients that saw an acupuncturist. Lets hope we're in that 40%! What a great success story. Melissa has given up as far as I know too much stress on her but someday if she decides to try again I will let her know about all this. It has really helped us. I posted a message in her journal to let her know you're looking for her. But she is going on vacation in the next day I think and she's only been online like twice in two months. Her job is keeping her super busy. But I'm sure she'll want to get in touch with you.

PGD is genetic testing that they do on the embies to make sure they look good. It tests for 21(If I remember right) different genetic disorders.(also the sex!) Our RE wants us to do it now but our insurance won't cover it and it costs $3500. So we said we'd try it now but if this doesn't work our next ivf will be done using it. We'll need some time to save up that kind of money, not to mention to get ourselves back on track. Hopefully it won't come to that.

I hope your appointment goes very well, and BrenS good luck to you too!!! I cant' wait to hear!

Sarah

Hey Sarah, tell Melissa I think about her too. I sure do miss the old bunch from UB...we all bonded so well.

Did you see your acupuncturist? Did she have a recommendation for one in Wichita?

I will tell her for sure. Oh and thanks for reminding me I'm sending you a PM right now there are quite a few!

Sarah

Sarah - Your FET cycle does sound like it'll be alot longer than mine. I expect that we'll be doing the transfer about a week after yours (if I get AF on time).
Kimberly - You are always such an inspiration with your positive attitude! I'm glad you have such a good acupuncturist.

Day 6 of provera. Nothing exciting happening. We all NEED a vacation! Between Nathaniel waking up at night and our beepers going off all night...

Amanda

Yeah I know it is pretty long. I'm not sure why. It seems so long but it's not like I'm stimmin so I don't get it. I guess they are just doing it by their schedules. Have a great time on vacation. I hear you, I wish we could get out of here. But MIL is taking Riley tonight until Sunday so we can get some painting done on the house. I'm really looking forward to that. Brandon and I will even get in a nice dinner hopefully. WE have some gift cards from Xmas to use.

I start estrace on Sunday and decrease my lupron. I still can't believe we are doing this!

Sarah

HOORAY Sarah!
Tomorrow is my last day of provera AND we're leaving for Miami (if this blizzard ever ends). We'll be back in time for my baseline (isn't it sad that we're scheduling vacation around my cycles???).

Amanda

Tomorrow is my last day of Provera and then I'll be waiting for AF and then start taking the BCPs.

Ana, that is GREAT!! See....the time since you last cycle hasn't been TOO long, has it?? :biggrin: You know I am praying for you already!!! :pray:

Amanda ~ Thanks!

Sarah ~ I totally understand the fear of getting pg again. As much as I want to get pg, my fear of losing another one is a little greater. :bighug: What I've learned about PGD is that each lab looks at a different number of chromosomes. The lab that my doc's office works with looks at 9 sets of chromosomes (the ones that are of the greatest concern).

Kimberly ~ It sounds like you have an awesome acupuncturist! That Infertility Retreat sounds so nice!

Anna ~ :wavey:

Suzi ~ Thanks!

We trigger tonight at 9 pm & go in for retrieval on Saturday at 8 am. It seems like the time went so quickly (though I was on Estrace for about 3 weeks). I'm vacilating a little between fear & knowing that whatever happens is okay.

Pam, my prayers are with you...I hope you know that! :pray:

good luck Pam. I will be thinking of you all weekend. I hope you get a bunch of perfect eggies!!

Nothing new for us. Just waiting and waiting. I've increased the estridol pills to 4 mg a day and in a few more days it will go to 6 mg. If all looks ok I'll stay at that if not they will just increase it. I'm sure my lining will be fine though they are really stretching out this darn cycle. An extra two weeks! Next week is a busy week. I have my 2 u/s and a few other appointments. Hopefully all will be ok and those cysts calmed down.

Sarah

Pam~I'm thinking of you and wishing you all the best! :bighug:

Pam ~ good luck :bighug:

Good luck Pam!
Ana - HOORAY for starting!
Sarah - Sorry the cycle's taking so long.

Here's my crazy story. We were scheduled to leave for Miami at 9:30am on Monday morning. Sunday morning Tom gets a text message from AA that they have cancelled our flight. He called a re-scheduled us on the 12:30pm flight. We then decided to stay an extra day since we were losing all of Monday. I was a bit nervous since Monday was supposed to be my last day of provera and I wanted to make sure we were back in time (but last cycle it took me 2 weeks to get AF after provera so I figured it was ok).
Sunday night at 2:30am I woke up to severe cramping. Yup. AF decided to arrive while I was still taking provera. This has never happened to me! I was totally panicked. I went in Monday morning at 7am hoping they'd let me have a baseline and figure out how to salvage the cycle. Miracles do happen! It was no problem at all!!! My baseline was fine and I took my 1st estradiol injection on Thurs. TG they cancelled our flight! I never could have gotten a baseline and made it to a 9:30 flight!
Here's my cycle... Estradiol injections on Mondays and Thursday. Each morning I go in for a blood test and get my dosage of Estradiol. On Thurs Feb 10th, I go in for a sono in addition to the blood test. If everything's ok, I had progesterone injections that night (continuing daily). On Monday, February 14th I have my FET!!! I can't even believe it!!!

Amanda

Wow Amanda we will be just a few days behind each other! Our transfer is the 11th. That is a good thing your flight got cancelled. So happy it worked out for the better. And now this even moves your cycle up some!

Sarah

Thanks Sarah! I'm still in shock that it's all happening so quickly! Do you know your test date yet? They want to do mine on 2/25.

Amanda

Miracles do happen! It was no problem at all!!! My baseline was fine and I took my 1st estradiol injection on Thurs. TG they cancelled our flight! I never could have gotten a baseline and made it to a 9:30 flight!
Here's my cycle... Estradiol injections on Mondays and Thursday. Each morning I go in for a blood test and get my dosage of Estradiol. On Thurs Feb 10th, I go in for a sono in addition to the blood test. If everything's ok, I had progesterone injections that night (continuing daily). On Monday, February 14th I have my FET!!! I can't even believe it!!!

Amanda

Amanda~I know there's a message in all of this somewhere. . .:scratch: I can't remember the exact quote, but I think your story hints on "blessings in disguise", "silver linings". . . . .:awink:

FET on 2/14. I thinks that's a good sign:yippee:. . .a day of loooooovvvvvve.:heart:

Kimberly

I will have it about two weeks but last time they tested at 12 in stead of 14 days so I'll make it for then. And of course I am and early tester so I'll be POAS well before that. I am too impatient to wait that long. I have quite a stash of HPT's so I plan to put them to good use.;)

Sarah

Kimberly - Exactly! I still can't believe it all worked out. Now I just have to hope for a BFP!
Sarah - I have a few HPTs at home, too. Since there's no HCG trigger for a frozen cycle, I know I'll be dying to test early...

Amanda

Me too. i am so impatient so I know I'll want to test early. I won't be disappointed if it is - if I test too early since I know there will still be a chance. When we did our IVF I tested on my own too. Well after the hcg would have been gone. The very first one was+. And the line just got darker as I continued to test each day after.

I am getting so anxious I just want to get this over with. I can't believe how long they are drawing this out. I think it is because of all the m/c's. I think they want to make sure that my lining is super thick and all that. I think it must be some protocall for those with my problems. Hopefully that and the acupuncture will help this time.

Sarah

My retrieval was pretty unremarkable. I do have more post-procedure discomfort than usual. It looks like my transfer will be on Thursday. We just got the fert report. They got 8 eggs, were able to ICSI 7, 1 appears unfertilized (not sure why), & 6 are normal. Whew! What a relief! They would have been pretty uptight about doing PGD with anything less. They will biopsy & send the cells to the lab on Tuesday afternoon. They are supposed to call Tuesday afternoon.

I'm with you early testers (though I will wait a while since I had to go the HcG route). I absolutely have to test before I go in for a test at the doc's office. Last time I had to wait until afternoon until they had the results & I kept thinking that I would find out during staff meeting...in the morning. I was so glad that I knew already!

Pam.... :crossfing :pray:

Pam that is great news. I hope they all come back very healthy! and I totally agree with why you test early. When we did our IVF with Riley I was working and would be finding out at work. I didn't want to be told I'm sorry while I was there. Heck even when she called I still cried a bit because I knew for sure. I think it is helpful to prepare yourself for what might happen. Plus I'm not a patient person!

I can't wait until Tuesday to hear. Does your insurance pay for the PGD or did you have to pay for it?

Sarah

Suzi ~ Thanks :bighug:

Sarah ~ Thank you! With my last pg, I knew that I was pg since I had POAS...but it was totally exciting to hear it from the nurse. My insurance doesn't pay for much of anything (other than some of the medication). We have to pay for the IVF, ICSI, PGD....you name it. Other than a co-pay, we didn't have to pay for the IUIs way back when.

That really sucks. I wish that more companies would pay for the IVF and PGD. We are lucky and they will pay most of our IVF(no freezing that is all out of pocket for us) but the won't pay the PGD costs. We don't have the $3500 and we couldn't even charge it if we wanted to. So if this doesn't work we'll take off at least 6 months to save some of the money and to regroup. Hopefully it won't turn to that. That is a crazy amount of money for us. We've been working like mad to get our credit debit down for a few years now and we still have a ton left. So we are really hoping we won't need the PGD. But the peace of mind is really nice with it. Just knowing that those embies they put back are free from some genetic disorders is a nice feeling when you've been thru so much. I wish we could have afforded it this try.

Sarah

Pam - Keeping everything crossed for you. Glad the retrieval went ok!
Sarah - We also pay for quite a bit out-of-pocket. It really adds up!

My E2 was 110 today which the nurse says is normal. Took my 2nd E2 injection tonight. I know it's TMI but I'm having TONS of CM on the estrogen injections...

Amanda

Sarah ~ Hopefully this FET works for you guys & you don't have to worry (well...not for too long, hopefully).

Amanda ~ I had tons when I was on Estrace, too...

I think for us the $$ thing is that we're in CA...& our insurance provides what they are required to provide by state law. I don't think that PGD is totally the be-all, end-all. There are things that can get by the PGD testing. My understanding is that there is about a 10% error rate (small as it is, we all know what its like to be in that small percentage). I was required to do a telephone information session before going through PGD. I was told that there is a chance that there is a false + , false - & "no result" (if they can't determine). There is something called mosaicism where some cells are normal & some are not, so if they are only testing 1 cell, they may not have the information needed. That being said, it will give me some peace of mind having gone through this process...provided that we have some good embies to transfer.

I got a call today from the Embryologist at my doc's office. She asked if we want to do PGD with our 3 frozen embies. I hadn't even thought about it. I'm not sure how well they will hold up but I totally think its worth doing...since I really don't want to transfer any that haven't been PGD'd anyway. Yay!

Amanda... I'm on estrace orally, vaginally... and on 3 patches. I have to wear pads because I have so much EWCM. It's gross... really. :lol:

Bren that is a whole lotta estrogen!!

Amanda I am on the estridol pills(6 a day right now) and I too have a lot of EWCM.

Pam, I heard the same info pretty much. That there is an error rate. But at least you know you are doing all you can. I'd go for it with the frozen embies. Our clinic charges a flat rate no matter how many you use. So if it is the same for you I'd do it. It won't cost you anything more and at least you won't have to pay it down the line. I can't wait to hear your results today!

Sarah

Copied from my journal:
Things are looking good so far. I spoke with the embryologist this afternoon. She said that they thawed the 3 frozen embies & all survived....however, 1 was only 1 cell (I guess that wouldn't quite work. Of the 2 remaining ice babies 1 was a 4 cell & the other was a 10 cell. Of the newbies we had: 1) 2 six cell embies (a grade 3 & a 4), 2) 3 nine cell (from grade 2-3) & 3) a twelve cell (grade 3). I don't quite understand the grades other than 4 is supposed to be the best quality & 3 is average. They sent the cells from each of the embies via courier to San Francisco :lol:

Hopefully I will find out the status tomorrow afternoon. If not, we have to wait until we go in for the transfer. I hope that whenever we find out that the PGD results give us some good options (& that those embies are still looking good on Thursday morning).I'm pretty sure that my acupuncturist is already booked for that time so most likely I will have to go without. I will just do some relaxation & visualization if that doesn't work out. Transfer is scheduled for Thursday at 10:45 am (Pacific Time).

I'm doing a little positive thinking & visualization to help focus myself.

Pam, what good news! Now here's hoping you get great news that all are A-OK!! :aok: I am praying for you! :pray:

Pam - That's great news!
Thanks everyone for sharing about the CM. I wasn't exactly worried but I do feel better knowing that I'm normal! Gosh, a FET seems so uneventful after doing injectibles and IVF!

Amanda

Pam that is great! I hope everything comes back looking good! I'm praying that they all come back looking awesome. Hopefully your acupuncturist can squeze you in. Mine is a one women office so she can make a point of seeing ivf'ers the day of the transfers. So I'll go in on Wed and then again on Friday. I think it is so awesome that you are doing great with relaxation and visualization. That will help you out so much. I've been doing that lately too. Hopefully it will work for both of us.:)

Amanda I hear you this seems so uneventful! I keep thinking there is something I should be doing.

Sarah

Good luck tomorrow Pam!

Today is CD1 for me so I'll be starting on the BCPs.

Holy moly on the CM stories. :awink: At least you're not alone.

Sarah~When is your beta test date? Thinking of you. :thumbsup:

Amanda~Hope things are moving along well this cycle.

Bren~You're post transfer aren't you? :crossfing

Ana~All the best to you this upcoming cycle.

Pam~Interesting information on PGD. I was thinking about asking for that for myself so that's good to know. It sounds like you have some pretty decent embies (both new & old) to work with. Good luck. Keep up the visualizing and relaxation. It can only help.

Well I had my visit with the "new" Dr. Thanks Bren for recommending him. He was great. Unfortunately, what he had to tell me (based on my records) was sort of the same stuff that my other Dr. told me. In short, my egg quality just doesn't look good. PGD did come up, but in order for that to happen, I'd have to do another IVF, and the Dr. felt it wouldn't be worth it, since it seems to be OBVIOUS :furious: to everyone that most of my eggs are going to have some chromosomal damage. :bawl: I did get some sympathy (and perhaps I also needed that). Both my Drs do admit that I've suffered some really bad luck. My 6th IVF cycle produced 6 eggs which is not terrific, not horrible, just O.K. based on the amount of drugs I was taking. Then I took some months off and I got pregnant. Even though it resulted in an ectopic, it 'caused me to believe that I could indeed get pregnant on my own. It gave me a lot of hope. So by the time I had my 7th IVF, I was sure that I would have really good results being that I was doing a lot of acupuncture and being very good with my diet. But, it was the 7th that was the death of me. To both Drs, producing only 3 eggs and only having one to transfer, I guess is a telling sign that my eggs are just not good enough. :tantrum: When I mention that my highest FSH level was 9, they're still saying that my 7th IVF results are most telling. Put it this way, both feel that it doesn't even make any sense for me to even do a Clomid Challenge because whatever the results are, still won't tell us anything that they don't already know. Devastated? You better believe it. Throughout these last four years, I've watched Drs scratch their heads and tell me that by all accounts, I should have no problem getting pregnant. :wtf: The fact that I've been pregnant 3 times was boosting confidence levels. All of my Drs including my current one, had initially told me that we had a good chance of getting pregnant. Now, all of that is changed. Aaarrrrrrggggghhhhhhh!!!! :badwords:

I could go into a long story about what I've been reading that a woman can do to help lower FSH levels and improve egg quality. I truly believe in that and I realize that a Western Dr. won't bring any of that up. It wouldn't be his place or his practice. So, all they can tell me is what's on paper and what the results are based on scientific fact. Fine. I got it. I'm not trying to be ignorant of the fact that I'm 40 and that plain and simple, it is not going to be easy. It doesn't mean that I'm giving up though. I'm still going to continue to work on this on my own. . .

But the biggest result of my visit with this new Dr. is that he somehow talked me into something that I didn't think I could do. . .Ladies, it looks like I'm going to go forward with a donor egg. I want to be pregnant. I want to give my husband some blood relation (he has none because he's adopted). This is the best possible way I can acheive that. My chances of concieving with my own eggs is like 10% or less. With donor egg, it's about 50%. Sure, I'm sad, scared, confused, angry. . .yet also hopeful. I guess I just dream of a day when all this will have just been a little hiccup in my life. I want to get onto other things. We want to adopt, but I can't seem to get past this need to carry a child and until I do, I'm having trouble moving forward. . .with just about everything in my life! I'm just starting to learn about the process, so I still have lots of decisions to make, but that's where I am right now. I'm still trying like heck on my own, but also crossing my fingers that DE will do the trick.

Kimberly

Wow Kimberly. Let me first start by saying you are one amazing women! You are so strong. (and from your profile pic, you dont look a day near 30!) I am very sorry you didn't get some good news you were hoping for.(and we were all hoping for you) That must have been devestating to hear. Maybe there are things and Eastern Medicine doctor could do to help you out more.

I think that using an egg donor would be a great idea since you so badly want to have a baby yourself.(we will probably do that should our next couple ivf's fail or end in m/c) I know it is a hard choice to make but 50% are pretty good odds. Whatever you decide to do we are totally here for you! I'm sending you big hugs!!

Sarah

:jawdrop: :faint:

I am TRULY not making fun but that is REALLY what happened here on my end. Kimberly, I am SO glad that you are considering DE! I know you have a great deal to research and think about - Hell, even pray about - but I am glad that you've opened yourself to this possibility (afterall, it's all about increasing the odds...right??)! :bighug:

WOW Kim...

I'm glad you like Dr. K. He's a "tell it like it is" kinda guy.. so he won't blow smoke up your ass. Donor eggs sounds like it's the way to go now.

My transfer keeps getting delayed because my stinkin' lining is still at 5.6. I go back tomorrow... then it's decision time.

Brenda.... :pray: and :crossfing

Ladies, it looks like I'm going to go forward with a donor egg. I want to be pregnant. I want to give my husband some blood relation (he has none because he's adopted). This is the best possible way I can acheive that. My chances of concieving with my own eggs is like 10% or less. With donor egg, it's about 50%. Sure, I'm sad, scared, confused, angry. . .yet also hopeful. I guess I just dream of a day when all this will have just been a little hiccup in my life. I want to get onto other things. We want to adopt, but I can't seem to get past this need to carry a child and until I do, I'm having trouble moving forward. . .with just about everything in my life! I'm just starting to learn about the process, so I still have lots of decisions to make, but that's where I am right now. I'm still trying like heck on my own, but also crossing my fingers that DE will do the trick.What a journey you have been on Kim. :hug99: I am truly pleased you are thinking of donor eggs. You will love being pregnant, and this baby (babies) will be YOURS. You are a wonderfully courageous woman, and I admire you.

Good luck to everyone here. :)

Thanks gals!

Sarah ~ My acupuncturist has her own practice also. She's always been good about scheduling me in. I think she may have other procedures she needs to be available to do. She will fit me in for a pre-transfer treatment. Yay!

Brenda ~ I hope things work out for your transfer soon.

Woohoo Kimberly! I'm glad you're not given up! I have to admit that I got excited when I saw that you are going to go the DE route (that could happen for us if this procedure doesn't pan out). My guess is that once you have a babe in your arms, the process that it took, important as it is, won't be the most important thing anymore. Related to you by blood or not, you would carry your baby in your womb & heart. My therapist said that when a child is yours, it doesn't really matter whether they are related to you by blood or not, because they are yours (she adopted her son).

I talked to the embryologist this afternoon & let me say that I am sooo glad that we did PGD! Of all 8 embies, 3 are considered normal (one was the 4 cell frozen embie). I don't have any specifics as far as what exactly was found wrong with the others. I'm so relieved that whatever gets transfered is likely to be "normal." I would have thought a 10-cell to be better than a 4-cell (guess I don't know what grades they were, though) but I guess not in this case. I guess there could also have been some question as to whether something was norml or not. I'm a little concerned that we have 3 & not more...but this is so much better than using an embie that would lead to a pg with aneuploidy.

I got a call from my acupuncturist & she was able to rearrange her schedule to fit in a pre-transfer session (rather than before & after). That's fine by me. Its always helped me to relax in the past when she was there (cause she dealt with the doc's office when they wouldn't say what was going on & passed the info on to us).

I will probably lay low the next few days since my doc's office is conservative & says to do the bed rest thing for 48 hours. I picked up a few books & magazines to keep me occupied & a little
I talked to the embryologist this afternoon & let me say that I am sooo glad that we did PGD! Of all 8 embies, 3 are considered normal (one was the 4 cell frozen embie). I don't have any specifics as far as what exactly was found wrong with the others. I'm so relieved that whatever gets transfered is likely to be "normal." I would have thought a 10-cell to be better than a 4-cell (guess I don't know what grades they were, though) but I guess not in this case. I guess there could also have been some question as to whether something was norml or not. I'm a little concerned that we have 3 & not more...but this is so much better than using an embie that would lead to a pg with aneuploidy.

I got a call from my acupuncturist & she was able to rearrange her schedule to fit in a pre-transfer session (rather than before & after). That's fine by me. Its always helped me to relax in the past when she was there (cause she dealt with the doc's office on transfer day when they wouldn't say what was going on & passed the info on to us).

I will probably lay low the next few days since my doc's office is conservative & says to do the bed rest thing for 48 hours. I picked up a few books & magazines to keep me occupied & a little indulged.

Pam that is great. Three likely normal ones are so good! Like you said at least you know these ones have the best chance. It's good peace of mind. Our clinic has me on bedrest for two days too. Can't hurt to just relax! I still need to pick up some things to keep me busy. Any good ones you found? I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! And yeah for getting in for your appointment right before!

Bren I'm praying your lining gets thicker quickly. Keep us posted as we are thinking of you all the time!!


I had my first u/s appointment and it went very well. I am right where I need to be. I go in again tomorrow and if all looks good(which I know it will since I am already over their min lining) I will stop lupron and start progesterone. Yikes getting close!

Sarah

OMG! :bighug: Reading all of your comments has been absolutely wonderful. I've been feeling so anxious and melancholy for the last three days and reading this honestly cheered me up. :yippee: I've been waiting for that moment to happen--when I wasn't going to feel like there was a cloud hanging over my head :sunny: I guess just hearing you ladies congratulate me about this decision makes me even more sure that I'm making the right decision. Aaaaaahhhhhhhhh. I just let out a breath. I think I've been holding my breath since my appointment on Monday. Thank you all so, so much! :bighug: I'm trying to get this process going pretty quickly--putting in calls to the donor coordinator, the financial counseler, etc. I just hope this works! :pray:

Brenda~Keep us up to date. I hope things go well today. :crossfing

Pam~That's great about the PGD. Very interesting about the 4-celled being better than the 10-celled. You really just never know I guess. :dunno:

Sarah~:scratch: I'm sorry I guess I was confused. I thought you were post transfer for some reason. :rolleyes: But you're on your way. :thumbsup:

Kimberly

Kimberly I can only imagine how hard this must be for you. We aren't here yet but might if things don't start getting better. So I know a teeny tiny bit of what you are feeling. It is so hard to make that decision but I think that once you have come to terms with it you will/do feel at peace with it. I am happy to hear that you are looking into things. Hopefully it will run fast and smoothly for you.

I know what you mean, this darn cycle is so freakin long it is screwing us all up! Should this had been like most other people, they would have had the transfer last week. But nope not me!;) Mine is on next Friday the 11th. Yikes almost a week away!! I am running around now and this weekend to get things all done. We need to get this place in shape for Riley's bday party at the end of the month. Once I have the transfer it will be 2 days of bedrest and from then on I will not be doing very much. I want these embies to stick and stay around. If I find out it didn't work then I'll be running around but if we are pg I'm not doing anything that might hurt these little ones!

Sarah

I don't have alot of time (I'm going to be late to work) but...

Kimberly - I am SO happy for you!!!! I know how hard a decision this is for you but I'm also glad you came to this. I really want for you to be pregnant and have a child!

I know lots of other people have exciting stuff going on - I'll personalize this weekend!

My E2 was 182 yesterday. I took another estrogen injection. They have me on the lowest dose of estrogen still so I guess everything's normal. Does anyone know what your E2 should be for the transfer???

Amanda

Well I had my last u/s appointment and my lining was 8.2 Lower than the other day. But she isn't worried since the machines or techs can be different. As long as it is over 8. So nothing changes. Here is my schedule:

Sat stop lupron
Sunday start progesterone and medrol

stay on 6mg daily of estridol until 8 weeks pg or - beta.

So I go in on Friday for our transfer and then just the waiting game. I'm pretty anxious to just get this over with.

Amanda I can't remember what is a good E2 number, Suzi knows. They never drew any blood this FET at all for me. Just lining checks, so I don't know what mine is. A week after the transfer I'll go in for E2 and P4 check.

Sarah

WOOHOO Sarah! Things are moving right along.
It's so interesting to me that the protocols are SO different! I haven't had any sonos yet, just blood draws. I go for my first and only sono on Thursday.

Amanda

Monday's E2 was 292. Still on the lowest dose of estrogen. Thurs is my sono and then I start PIO in addition to E2. Yuck!

Amanda

Awaiting the call from the RE but my lining was 8 this morning so I should be all set for Monday.
Good luck tomorrow Sarah!

Amanda

Brenda ~ How are things going? Where you able to have a transfer yet?

Sarah ~ I have my :crossfing for you for tomorrow! Hoping things go well with your transfer!

I've been :sick: since Saturday. I've been feeling pretty yuck since Saturday. I started feeling a bit better this morning.

I remembered how much I dislike the 2ww. I'm impatient & really want to know...but I kinda don't. Could I handle a BFN or, for that matter, a BFP? Well, I think I would be exstatic over a BFP...but tempered by our past experiences. DH & I are going to brave the Valentine's Day chaos on Monday & eat out at a nice little restaurant. He said that depending on the results we would celebrate (BFP) or drown our sorrows (BFN). He's so sweet...

Suzi ~ I'm sure you know this one. How long until the hCG trigger is out of your system? In case I have to test in the next few days. I likely will test before Monday.

Hi Pam!!!

We transferred 3 embryos yesterday. 1 was perfect.. 2 were a little fragmented... but the cells looked good.

Now I just take it easy until Monday... and get the beta on the 21st. I'm scared to death!!! LOL

Thanks for checking in on me... you can follow my blog for more deets:

http://www.livejournal.com/users/fiberdiva/

Brenda, I am so excited for you!! Wow...we're gonna have lots of betas all around the same time!!

Woops!!
Suzi ~ I'm sure you know this one. How long until the hCG trigger is out of your system? In case I have to test in the next few days. I likely will test before Monday.
Of course I know!! TECHNICALLY, the trigger shot can stay in your system for up to 14 days. That said, I have never had it in my system longer than a week or so. My suggestion would be to test NOW and get your negative (because it's too early for a BFP). Then you KNOW for sure the hCG is gone and you can believe a BFP if you get it.

:crossfing

Brenda that is great. I hope all goes really well for you!

Pam I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Amanda that is great. My lining was 8.2 on Friday(lower than the u/s before that) Thanks for the good luck vibes!

Well we are scheduled for a 9:30 transfer. I have an acupuncture appointment at 6:15 YUCK! We'll have to leave here at 5:30. Then after that we'll drive downtown to the clinic. They wanted us to come at 8 and wait around for an hour and a half. I told them no way. 1/2 fine but 1 1/2 that is crazy. She said she likes patients to get there early incase they are running ahead of schedule. Well we are the last ones. We live 3 miles from the Wisconsin boarder and have to go to down town Chicago to do this. I'd have to leave my house at 5 or earlier to get there at 8.(the traffic is terrible going inbound and I still need my acu appointment) It's not my fault that you can't schedule people right. What doctors office runs 1 1/2 hours early? Heck I'd fall out of my chair if these people ever saw me ON TIME! They are always a good 1/2 behind. So the plan is to call my acu lady when we are leaving the transfer and she'll meet us again for a second appointment. She says she really feels it's important to do it. Might as well we can use any little help we can get. So please keep your fingers crossed for us. We won't know our embie report until we get there. I have to call at 7 am to see if we are still on. Hope so cause by then we will already be on our way.

Sarah

Brenda ~ Good luck!

Suzi ~ I knew you'd know that info. Thanks! I remember that sort of info for a little while, like I during a cycle :lol:

Sarah ~ My goodness, you sure have to leave early tomorrow! I think it is better to get the acu before & after if you can, though. They want you there an hour & a 1/2 before your transfer? How crazy to have to wait that long! I don't even have to get to my center until an hour before...if my acupuncturist is coming there to do acu before. Otherwise, they have us get there a 1/2 hour before the procedure. We have still had to wait for every transfer that I can remember.

Pam - I already feel that way and I haven't even had the transfer yet. Fingers crossed for a BFP on Monday!
Brenda - That sounds great!
Sarah - I hope everything goes well today!

I forgot how much I hate the PIO. Yuck! Today I started the medrol and the tetracycline. The embryologist will call on Sunday with a time for the transfer on Monday. My beta is the 25th so right around everyone else.
Fingers crossed for lots of ++++.

Amanda

I am SO praying for ALL of you for a STREAK OF BFPs!!!! :pray:

Wow so much is going on with you guys :lol: I feel so far behind. I'm still on BCP, will start Lupron on the 18th. I'm really praying for lots of BFPs in here in a couple weeks!

I am SO praying for ALL of you for a STREAK OF BFPs!!!! :pray:

You said it. Ditto for me. :nod: :banana:

Unfortunatly our news isn't really good. I never really thought we would have a problem with not having many good embies. We had 9 that looked good. I know freezing them and then thawing causes problems so I thought we'd get 4-5 good ones. Well when we got there we found out that there was only one embie to transfer and it didn't look that super. 5 didn't make the thaw at all. And the four left three didn't divide well at all(didn't divide in a day and a half at all) So that left us with just one left. It was supposed to be a blast but it too was slow to divide. It is the best looking one but still not that great. They wouldn't even bother to tranfer the other ones they looked so bad. I just really can't believe it. I am heartbroken. I really never gave it any thought that we wouldn't have the two we needed. I couldn't hold back crying when the RE told us. I tried to but I just couldn't. Just yet another thing against us. I know it only takes one, and I'm hoping that this one will grow nice and strong. But honestly our chances really really suck right now. It just wasn't a good looking embie. When we had Riley they used three great looking embies and we had one baby. Now we have one not so great embie. Granted it is two days older so we'll see. I'm just praying right now that this is the ONE we need. Lots of bedrest for me so I can give this little one every chance. So please send any sticky baby vibes/prayers you can, we really need them now.

Sarah, at the risk of sounding like I am scolding you...you KNOW that the quality of embryo has NOTHING to do with the outcome!! I can start naming NAMES of people that we BOTH know who had less than perfect (some downright poor) looking embryos transferred and they got their BFP!! Don't chuck your chances just because the embryo didn't look perfect and don't call the cycle a bust already when that embryo needs you SO MUCH right now!! Just work on relaxing, visualize the embryo implanting, keep up a positive attitude and above all, DON'T STRESS!! Stress releases cortisol into the blood and that can be deadly to the embryo.

I know you are disappointed that it didn't go the way you were thinking but if there's ONE thing I've learned about IVF in my 5 cycles, it's that it rarely goes the way you think it will. Don't count this a total loss - that embryo needs you to believe in it!! :nod: :hug99:

Um, Kimberly.....GREAT pic!!! :aok:

Hmm...I guess I should probably post here since I have a few tidbits to update. I have been doing some research on the internet and I came across something called ESTROGEN PRIMING. Dr. Sher uses it at his centers for women who are poor responders. In my own words, he pretty much called the microdose Lupron flare protocal CRAP because many women don't respond to that, either (which is exactly my case). Anyway, the protocol goes something like this: Lupron five days before AF, AF shows and you either drastically reduce Lupron or stop it altogether and replace it with Antagon. You do estrodiol shots twice a week for 7-10 days and THEN you start high dosage of FSH (Gonal-F or Follistim) shots ONLY - NO REPRONEX OR PERGONAL - for a few days and then you reduce it significantly. The combination of FSH Antagon, and estrogen shots is continued for 7 days of stims and then the estrodiol is stopped. The FSH stims and Antagon continue until trigger.

This protocol is VERY different from what I have been doing and I am very excited about it!! I found a chat session dialogue where Dr. Sher said that he would work with your center to customize an estrogen priming protocol specifically for you, that your RE should just call him directly!

And this is PERFECT timing - we have an appointment with my RE next Thursday and I already left a message with the IVF coordinator that we are coming in armed with all kinds of info on this and we want to explore it further. Now I just hope my RE is receptive to it. I'd hate to switch centers NOW but I will if I don't feel like they are treating me as an individual rather than fitting me into the confines of their "normal" protocols. In that case, I'd have to go to St. Louis to see Dr. Sher himself.

Also on my plate is this support group. I make a presentation to an IVF education class at my center next week and our first meeting is March 8th. I am very excited about this and it is all coming together well!

That's all for me...I am praying for everyone and as much as I want to be PG myself, I wish it just as much for each of you - Pam, Brenda, Sarah, and Amanda! I am counting on you to finally get us some :bfp:

Suzi - That sounds really exciting! You are such a wonderful support here!
Sarah - I'm sorry you're so disappointed. I can't put it any better than Suzi did so I strongly recommend that you listen to her! Fingers crossed for you!

I just got the call from the embryologist. Our transfer is at 10am tomorrow morning. Please think good vibes for the thaw and then sticky vibes for the transfer.

Amanda

I didn't chuck this cycle or my chances. As I said in my post I was going to relax and give this little one every chance I could. And that is what I've been doing. I was just saying how bad our chances were. but that I knew that it only takes one so we were praying this was our one. I don't think I blew our situation out of poportion, it is what it is. And I know extra stress won't help anything so I have been relaxing and visualizing the implantation. I think I've done the best I can given what has happened. I don't think there is anyone here who wouldn't be disappointed with only one slowly dividing embryo for transfer given all the problems I have.(most of us share similar ones)Suzi I know you did when you only had a couple your last cycle. I just needed the support to help me thru this.

amanda I am praying for you so hard tonight! I hope that you get some amazing looking embies. Hopefully you will have the pick of the litter so to speak. let us know when you feel better enough to log on. You'll be in my thoughts all day!!

As a side note I have had some cramping the last two days. Never any the day of the transfer. Then yesterday afternoon I started to get some on and off mild period cramping. Strong enough for me to notice right away, but not bad. Hopefully that is implantation cramping. I've never had it before but there is a first time for everything. Another thing is that I've been so sleepy. On the progesterone pills I would be very tired but back when we did our IVF the progesterone never effected me at all. Well this time I guess it is. I've been sleeping for a good 4-5 HOURS in the middle of the day! That is so not like me. Thankfully Brandon has been taking total care of Riley so I can rest fully. Next week we will take it easy and only leave the house when we have to. I don't want to jepordize this in anyway.

Sarah

Got some news ladies...could ya' come by my journal for a peek?

Suzi ~ :wavey:

Amanda ~ :crossfing for tomorrow!

Sarah ~ Got my fingers crossed for you for this cycle :bighug: It's sounding good. I've been having some...I wouldn't call it cramping...but pressure around my uterus. I don't even like the feeling of my stretchy pants or the blanket on my stomach at night.

I've already been and I will say it again here!! I am SO very excited for you!!! Make sure you pass on the good beta nubers, okay??! :yippee:

Pam like I said on OUL I am so SO happy for you!!! I can't wait to hear your numbers today. And I hope I'll get to follow in your shoes soon. I have had this full feeling since Sat. Not bloated I can still fit in all my pants just the same but just very heavy and full. I don't know if it is because my lining is thicker now then usual or what. I have noticed my cysts causing some pain. I'm just praying so hard this little one will stick! And I'm sending you every single sticky baby vibe I have!!!

Sarah

Pam, I'm so excited for you!
Brenda and Sarah, I'm praying that we'll be celebrating for you real soon too!
Amanda, good luck today!

Pam - HOORAY!!!!
Sarah - Fingers crossed.

My story is similar to Sarah's. Our transfer wasn't good at all. We were so optimistic b/c we froze seven 8-celled embryos that looked great. Before the transfer the embryologist explained that our embryos didn't thaw well but we still had 2 to transfer. We were pretty optimistic since we only intended to transfer 2. After the transfer, we got the real story. Apparently our embryos all had something called pitting. She said it's like how a golf ball looks. They know from experience that pitted embryos do not freeze and thaw well (why they didn't EVER tell us this, I don't know). She actually recommended that we don't freeze embryos at all in the future. We ended up with two 2-celled embryos. I'm really not sure why we even bothered to transfer them at all. I feel like we played a part in a huge farce today (one that cost us about $5000). During the actual procedure we were really excited b/c we thought we had 2 good embryos. Then we find out that we have two nothings. I'm very, very disappointed.
Thanks for all the good wishes. Maybe we'll get a huge miracle...

Amanda

I'm sorry Amanda. Stay positive and don't lose hope. I'm praying for that miracle for you. :bighug:

Thanks Ana. I've been having my own little pity party...

Amanda

Oh Amanda I am so sorry honey. You go ahead and have your party.:( You need to get that out. That is how I felt too. I had wished they would have told me that on the phone when I called that morning. I am praying so very hard that both of us will have a great surprise in a week or two. I won't give up hope for you. But for now I know how you feel and you need to work thru that first. Once you can, try to stay positive.(I know it is hard) You never know those two embies might surprise you and fight. If you need anything let me know! Hugs!!

Sarah

Amanda ~ I'm so sorry. Still crossing my fingers that it will work out for you.

Thanks Sarah and Pam. I know the advice I would give someone else - it's never over until after the blood test. On the other hand I find it extremely unlikely that these 2 little 2 celled embryos (I'm not even sure 2 cells qualifies as an embryo?) will stick. But ya never know. I took my estrogen and progesterone injections tonight and we'll just have to wait and see.
Sarah - How's your wait going?
Pam - When do we hear the blood test results????

Thanks to all!
Amanda

Thanks everyone for the congrats!

Thanks for reminding me Amanda...my beta was 265 this morning. I won't go for another beta because its high enough for my RE's office. I go back next Thurs for an u/s.

Pam~You go girl! :rahrah: CONGRATULATIONS :clap: I'm keeping my fingers crossed for a continued successful pregnancy. :crossfing

Sarah~I'm so sorry. I totally understand. . .we go into this with so many expectations (which we should have a right to do) and so it just stinks when things aren't optimal. It certainly makes staying positive a hellofuva tough job. Hang in there, cause Suzi is right, in the end, it seems the quality of the embryo has nothing to do with the outcome. :screwy: :bighug:

Amanda~That totally stinks. I'm so sorry. The things is, it doesn't make sense to me that you didn't know about this pitting before they went ahead and froze the eggs! :down: I'm sending out positive thoughts for your embies.

Suzi~I think it's awesome that you're getting the support group going. :clap: It's also very interesting about the information you dug up regarding low responders. Even though I'm still focusing on the donor egg route, I still wonder. . . .:scratch: My friend, who is 45 and using her own eggs, had an almost identical 7th IVF cycle as my 7th IVF cycle (3 eggs, 1 embryo for transfer, and high drug dosage). My Dr. has concluded that I simply have poor quality eggs yet my friend is now on her 8th IVF cycle and they just retrieved 6 eggs! I believe that Resolve is holding an online chat on Weds. 23th on low responders.

Brenda~When is your beta test? :crossfing

I have a donor seminar tomorrow! :yippee: We're just starting, so according to my "list of steps" for the donor egg process, this is one of the first. It's an hour and 1/2 long group information session. Here, DH and I will learn more about the process, be able to ask questions, and go over financial issues. Oh boy, here we come. :silly:

Kimberly

Kimberly, thanks for that info!! They have LOTS of great topics and I thnk I put 5-6 of them on my calendar!! I also happened to look at the AFA site I usually attend online chats and they are holding one for...THIRD PARTY REPRODUCTION on the 17th!! Just go to http://www.theafa.org/connections/chat.html and you can attend. It is Feb 17th at 8pm EST.

Amanda... I'm so sorry about your transfer.. There's always hope though! Keep your
chin up!

PAM... AWESOME NEWS!!!!


Kimberly... I go on Monday the 21st for my beta. seems like forever!!!

Bren~Good Luck! :crossfing

Suzi~Thanks for the info. I'll definitely try to check that chat out.

The seminar went well this morning. There were about 7 other couples there. I don't know. . . .I don't necessarily like the idea of having to get this information in a group setting, but then again like DH said, "We're all here for the same reason." I have a tendency to want to imagine or "create" little stories in my head about why each couple needs to do this and I can only imagine that someone else in that room is wondering about me. Maybe it's just me who's over curious. . .:dunno: It was very informal and we were able to ask questions. They already had a folder specifically for me. I guess that as soon as one makes the appointment to attend the seminar, they're already going into each persons records and gathering information. They already had a list for me on what tests I need. :rolleyes: This whole testing baloney doesn't thrill me, :tantrum: although I understand it's part of the process. As a matter of fact, you can't even go forward with finding out how much your insurance will cover until you've taken the required tests. Obviously, it's a Catch 22 for some women who don't want to do any testing until they know if and how much they can get covered through their insurance company. This is what I need to have tested:

Uterine Imagining (I guess that's basically the Sonohysteragram?)
Day 3 FSH & E2 (w/Clomid Challenge)
Day 10 FSH & E2 (w/Clomid Challenge)
HIV-1, HIV2
HBsAg
HepCAb
RPR
Prenatal labs (TSH & PRL)
Cervical Cultures (GC, Chlamydia, Pap Smear, Mammogram)

I have no idea what some of these tests are. But can you believe how many tests I have to do???? I don't remember having to do this many for my IVFs! We were told that this process, from the time a couple attends the seminar to the point of the transfer is, on average, about 5 months. I have a lot ahead me. :complain:

Kimberly

Wow Kim, I guess it's complicated. I had some of those tests done for before my first IVF. Maybe it's procedure for NEMC?

I had already had most of those done.. so NEMC didn't do any other than HCG and FSH..... I also didn't have to do the orientation thing since I'd done so many cycles at Brigham.

Oh they did do a physical and bacteria test .. and a pap.

If this cycle doesn't work out.. we're doing another fresh.. then giving up

Kim, with the exception of the clomid challenge and a mammogram, those tests are ALL standard before an IVF cycle at my center!!

Uterine Imagining (I guess that's basically the Sonohysteragram?) Yep
Day 3 FSH & E2 (w/Clomid Challenge)
Day 10 FSH & E2 (w/Clomid Challenge)
HIV-1, HIV2 HIV tests
HBsAg Hepatitis B test
HepCAb Hepatitis C test
RPR Syphilis test - the same one they do for a marriage license
Prenatal labs (TSH & PRL) Thyroid and Prolactin
Cervical Cultures (GC, Chlamydia, Pap Smear, Mammogram) Regular annual pap with the additional cultures and of course, the mammogram

Kimberly, I know it sounds like a long time but those 5 months are going to FLY by!! Just think...around that time I will have only recently found out my beta results (early August)!! So I am dragging it out right along with you! :nod:

Kimberly I too had most of those done just to be able to get the referral to see my RE. So you might have already done them not knowing. Most are blood tests or part of a regular exam. Check with your center or your last OB visit I'll bet you already have them. I don't really see why it would take 5 months to complete those tests. They are all fairly simple. Maybe the 5 months includes the time for the insurance to get back to you with their approval and coverage info? I'm glad the session went well. I hope that you are able to move forward fast.

Brenda good luck I can't wait until Monday. Will you be testing on your own before hand? I am wishing you the best of luck. You are in my prayers!

Amanda how are you holding up? I'm thinking of you.:)

Suzi that totally sucks that your clinic only does 5 cycles a year. Is it because they don't handle a lot of people? Our's is constantly running except for twice a year when the labs shut down for 3 weeks to clean. Otherwise you just have your own cycle. There are boat loads of people though so running only a hand full of cycles a year would never be enough. But there are also 6 RE's so that is a lot to plan for. I hope that your being sick gets under control so you can make the soonest possible cycle.

Well I'm still feeling pretty good. Other than my hips that is. I already have two very large lumps and it is tender just when I walk or lay down. I don't remember it being this painful daily. After a month or so that is when it got painful and the nerve damage happened. It's only been 1 1/2 weeks. I've been using the heating pad and Brandon rubs the area for several minutes each day. Ah PIO is so much fun! My RE's office called today with my E2 and P4 results and they are good. My progesterone is at 34.7 and it has never been that high. So that is good. It is nice to finally not have to worry about low progesterone. I feel pretty good. Having some good pg symptoms for sure. I'm not getting too excited but cautiously optimistic. I POAS this am and there was a shadow of a line. It is super early and it isn't what I would even call a light line just a pink shadow where the line should be. Not reading into yet. I'll test again in a couple days. Might as well use all the stored up tests I have! Oh and my acupuncturist said that my pulse was that of a pg womens. She said it isn't 100% and that being on progesterone could mimic that so don't put much into it. Still it is nice to hear. I feel like I'm in the early part of a pregnancy. Oh and I'm craving red meat like nuts! I've never been a huge fan. I'll eat it but it isn't that often. The last few days I want it like no tomorrow. We've had red meat everyday this week. And this is terrible but I wanted a steak at 9:30 last night even after eating burgers for dinner. How weird is that? Well I'm off to get some work done!

Sarah

Pam - CONGRATS! I'm very happy for you!
Kimberly - That sounds very exciting! I know you've got a long road still but it'll go quickly! We did know about the pitting before we froze the embryos but they never told us that they KNOW that pitting causing problems.
Sarah and Brenda - Fingers crossed for you.
Suzi - You're always so knowledgeable!
Ana - How are you holding up?

This week has been torture. I really didn't remember the PIO as being this bad but maybe I was more optimistic about the cycle last time? I've been working all week, too, which isn't helping. Tom is very upset about the whole thing which makes it harder. At least I have my online friends and real-life friends to talk to. I guess men don't have the same resources!
Thanks for the encouragement.

Amanda

Suzi that totally sucks that your clinic only does 5 cycles a year. Is it because they don't handle a lot of people?
Sarah
Well, it isn't all that bad because you really can't do more than 5/6 cycles in a year anyway (if you did one on top of another). My center does about 200 cycles a year in those 5 cohorts - about 40 women each time. All between 2 REs. Crimeny.

Amanda (and Sarah), hang in there. You just never know what God has in store for you. :pray:

Kimberly, I forgot to say that I am really excited for you about getting this DE IVF going! Sarah is right - several of those tests are all blood draws and can be done from one draw. The HIV, Hep B & C, RPR, TSH, and PRL are all (several vials from) one blood draw. Then there's the Clomid Challenge, pap, and Mammogram. Not so bad! :nod:

YIKES!!! I forgot to mention that I have my consult with my RE tomorrow!! I have to convince him that he needs to treat me with the estrogen priming protocol - and they've never used it for IVF patients before. This ought to be fun. :rolleyes: Wish me luck!!

Can I just say that you guys are awesome. :bighug: When it comes down to it, I guess you're right! It's not that bad at all. I've mentioned before that I'm horrible with medical terms. . .the fact is, when you explain it so simply (Ms. soon-to-be-head and organizer of a support group) :awink: it makes everything so much better. I HAVE had all of those tests in the past. Most were not done in my initial workup, although I've had them here and there during these last, long 4 years. For the DE thing, I have to have had them all done in the last 6 months, so that's why I need to do all of these over. I've never had a mammogram. . . .mammogram. . .boy, that's a term that I didn't think I'd have to concern myself with for another few years. :rolleyes:

Sarah~All those things you mentioned sound very positive! :yippee: I completely understand and agree that you need to continue to be cautiously optimistic. . .but the key word is optimistic, and being optimistic is never a bad thing. It's going to take 5 months for me because after the tests, then I still have set up with the donor agency, choose the donor, time our cycles, etc.

Amanda~Hang in there. :bighug:

Suzi~You are going to be so great in heading up a support group. I wanna join! Oh, and I wish you could've come with me to all my Drs appointments. . .I really could have used a spokesperson. Good Luck with your RE today. :crossfing

I just have to wait about a week and 1/2 or so for AF to arrive and then I'll start on all these tests. :crazy:

Kimberly

Good luck today at your appointment Suzi. I hope it goes well.

Kimberly, can I just say that I LOVE seeing the picture of you wtih the big smile on your face??? Every post I read of your lately it seems that that smile is coming through bigger and brighter with each one!

The mammogram - it's GOOD for you to have one now anyway! :nod: I have been doing them for almost 10 years now because of family history. Just consider it your baseline mammogram!

I am nervous about the meeting today. I am afraid that our RE will not be receptive to doing something just for me outside of what they normally do. Considering we spent $30,000 on IVFs last year and I am not PG, I personally think they OWE it to us to research something new because what we've been doing isn't working. I turn 39 this year, we only have 1 MAYBE 2 tries left moneywise, and I want the BEST shot at success that I can have (and I don't want to leave my center).

I don't suppose if I convince all you guys that'd sway him any, you think?? :lol: Oh, I guess all I can do is present him with the info I have collected, ask him to research it further, give it careful consideration and then make a decision. Please keep your fingers crossed for me!

Good luck I'm sure it will go well. Your RE sounds really nice so I'm sure he'd be willing to try something new. And heck it might even help out other patients with the same problem. Let us know how it went!

Well, the appointment went well. My RE knows of the estrogen priming protocol and he agreed to research it more for my case specifically. He actually worked with Dr. Sher a long time ago (but his opinion of him isn't that great). We did find out that I was approved by insurance for the connective tissues test since I have m/c three times but I wasn't notified by the insurance company so I never had it done. Of course not, that's spending their money. :rolleyes: Well, I am going to do that test to make sure there isn't an underlying factor for why I am getting PG but not keeping it. Then we will see where we're at.

Anyway, Chris and I both feel positive about our meeting today. We will discuss our thoughts on the estrogen priming protocol and see what we think. We may do it, we may not. I did have a CD3 done and it was well within normal limits - that's what perplexes me most of all! Given my CD3 results, I should be responding to these stinking drugs like CRAZY! My RE said it's just plain age. God, I hate to think I am really one of those women who waited too long (not completely my fault since Chris and I started TTC immediately after we got married) to have a baby. :tearhair:

I better go - I have some calls to make and things to get done. Hope everyone is having a great day!

Suzi - HOORAY for a good appt! I'm glad your RE is so cool.
Sarah - Hang in there girl!
Kimberly - I'm glad that the tests don't seem so bad. I think I've had most or all of those recently.

I'm in a better mood today. I had a good day at work (a long day but good) and I wasn't feeling as rotten as yesterday. I've decided that even though this cycle is a long shot for me, it's not over yet. Who knows? Crazier things have happened. We've also started thinking about the "what next?" question. I know it may sound like jumping the gun but I know I do better if I've planned for all the options (so I'm dealing with the pregnant with two, pregnant with one, miscarry, ectopic, and not pregnant at all scenarios at once!). I can't say how much this group means to me!

Amanda

Amanda, I don't think the "what next?" question is jumping the gun at all. You have to be prepared for everythng and if planning out different scenarios is what gets you by, then that's the best thing to do.

Personally, I was just thinking today that we have one, MAYBE two cycles left to try before we will have to give up. Then I kinda started thinking I'm not going to know what to do with myself not waiting for the next IVF cycle. The last 3 years of my life have been spent either doing an IVF cycle or waiting for an IVF cycle and not having that is kinda strange to think about. Guess that makes me an IVF junkie! :dunno: :lol2:

amanda I can totally understand how you feel. that is how I am too. We have our plan if this doesn't work. We had it before we even did this cycle since the last 5 pgy's have ended in m/c I felt it was in our best interest to really think about things realisticly. And Suzi's right you do whatever gets you by! But I'm glad you aren't giving up. Like you said stranger things have happened!

Suzi I can understand what you mean about not knowing what to do. I think that is one of my biggest fears if we take and extended break. For well over 3 years now I have thought about it daily.(except a good 4 months after Riley was born) It is all I think about. We will try IVF with PGD our next round(should we need it) but after that we will probably do donor eggs. We can't afford one round of PGD much less two. As is we will probably just end up taking out a home equity loan to pay for it.(and to pay off some debt) Thank God our house has gone up so much since we bought it. Otherwise I don't know what we'd do. It really is hard to think of a life with no TTCing. But hopefully we will all get pg soon and stay that way so we won't have to worry about what next.

I'm still feeling good. And I think a huge part is Brandon. Brandon is very much and introverted person. I however am not. I say what's on my mind. He holds it in. But since we've done this cycle he is so verbal about how he KNOWS I'm pg. In fact he called me his pg wife yesterday.(sent me in tears:)) I don't know if it is because he knows how hard I will take it if this doesn't work or what. he's seen what the last year has done do me and really wants to take a break after this so we can really heal. But he is just so sure it worked. I hope he is right. Course I think it did too but I can't decide if I really do or if I really do out of desperation.

I still feel all the same things I did before when I was pg with Riley. But I didn't feel them much when I was pg the other 5 times. So maybe this is a good sign. I will POAS tomorrow and see. That will be 9 dpo 5dt. If nothing shows it's still early, but if it does that would be great. My beta is on Wed. I'll be sticking around all day waiting for the results. I'm so nervous and anxious!

Sarah

Geez, Sarah....when you said you are going to POAS tomorrow, even *I* got butterflies in my belly! I am excited for you and I am praying that this cycle worked for you! :pray:

:) thanks suzi. I really do feel pg. I'm a little scared that it is my mind playing tricks. It has before but never this much. So we'll see. I really feel the little one held on. Now hopefully they will continue to. My greatest fear is getting pg only to be told our second or third blood draw that we lost another baby. but hopefully with the acupuncture and all the IVF meds that will do the trick! We made a lot of changes since trying on our own.

I have been thinking that if we are lucky enough to give birth to another child I am going to have them tie or remove my tubes. We will never try on our own again since for some reason my body won't hold the baby. So I won't need the tubes anymore. We will probably never have a third. I just don't think I could handle going thru this again. It has been a terrible year and a half and I don't want to repeat it. I don't want to be on birth control forever so I think I will request that from my doctor. The peace of mind to know that we won't accidently get pg is worth it.(I need progesterone supplements or we m/c so if we did on accident it would most likly end quickly) Something for us to talk about but I'm pretty sure that is what we'll do.

Sarah

Amanda ~ We usually have some sort of plan if things don't work out. It helps me to deal with the possibility that things might or might not work out.

Suzi ~ Hi, my name is Pam & I'm an IVF addict...:lol:

Sarah ~ Sounds like our DH's are alike in the way that they hold things in. I don't consider myself extroverted, but I say what I need to say (esp. with DH...or it will come out some other way which isn't good). The 2ww is so much more anxiety provoking after an IVF (at least it was for me this last time).

Suzi ~ Hi, my name is Pam & I'm an IVF addict...:lol:

:rotflmao: :lol2: I'm dyin'!

Any news Sarah?
Thanks again y'all.
It's funny but I feel a bit guilty saying this b/c our plan if this cycle fails is to go back a few steps. When I took Clomid it was without monitoring, without a trigger shot, and without IUI. And we never gave injectibles with IUI a real chance. The 1st cycle we did I had a HUGE dermoid cyst on my right ovary which prevented that ovary from responding at all. The 2nd cycle I hyperstimulated so we gave up. We're thinking of going back to basics. Clomid or injections. Maybe with IUI. Maybe without. If I don't get pregnant then we would re-consider IVF after I finish my fellowship in Baltimore (I'm going to Baltimore for 2 years to finish my training). I would be almost 36 then but my mom got pregnant on her own at age 44 so genetics is on my side. And for the 1st time ever I got AF on my own a few times since Nathaniel was born. Maybe I'll actually ovulated on my own now and even get pregnant without the aid of technology.

Amanda

I just noticed I forgot some things in my last post.

Thanks Brenda, Kimberly & Amanda

Brenda ~ :crossfing:

Amanda ~ From what I remember, the PIO is done longer in an FET than a regular IVF. I was soooo bruised after my FET.

Sarah ~ :crossfing:

Suzi ~ :lol:

I'm really hoping that this is a "sticky" & "healthy" baby. We've had such bad luck in the past with getting pregnant & then losing them that it would be wonderful to be able to carry to full term & have a healthy little one.

Pam I know how you feel. But I'm sure everything will be just great this time!

Amanda, Maybe going back will help you out. You never know. Maybe just the change of what you are doing will help things? I hope that you won't even have to think about that much longer!

Well nothing still for me. No lines. Wednesday is my beta so I'll keep testing till then. I'm not giving up hope yet! I tested + with Riley 3 days before my beta. So maybe tomorrow I'll get a nice line. We'll see!

the PIO's are really getting to be painful. Last time it was quite sometime before they got bad. The shot itself is fine but I have two very large hard lumps under my skin and some times they are several inches from where the shot was given. My skin is also bright red where the lumps are.(the lumps are several inches wide 4-5") Brandon rubs them after the shots with the heating pad for quite sometime and I still have them. At first I thought it was infected since it was also warm to the touch. But we are very careful with cleaning off the areas before the shot and afterwards. I never had the hard lumps like this last time. My backside is actually swollen. Brandon heats the oil in his hand before he gives it to me too.(he is a hot box very warm hands) So we are doing everything we did last time and yet this is much worse. Weird!

Sarah

Sarah, after 5 IVF cycles, I can tell you that each one is different. If this isn't strange enough...the PIO for my cycle in October was worse than the cycle in December and the lumps in my hips hadn't yet dispersed from the October cycle! :dunno:

grrrrrrrrrrr...

Well the good news is... no bleeding yet. For all of my other transfers I was bleeding
by 10DPO. I haven't seen even a hint of blood.

I tested again this morning and it was Neg... so I'm not holding out much hope.
I'm considered to be 12DPO at this point.. or 10dp2dt.

My beta was moved to Tuesday because of the holiday tomorrow. I guess the lab is closed. More waiting.. lovely, eh?

Brenda, I am still praying for you...lots of extra prayers tonight and tomorrow (same as usual!).

Brenda I hope that you get some good news tomorrow! I know how you feel though.

I tested again this am with a FRE and there was no line. Not even a hint of one. My beta is Wednesday so I'm hoping one will show. I was so sure I was pg. I hope my feeling wasn't wrong. I have noticed a change in my body this weekend. I started getting night sweats again. And I've been cold during the day. I don't know what that means. I know my acupuncturist has been working the last several months on getting that in control and she did but now this weekend it's back. I'm still getting very odd very real feeling dreams. I just hope that means something good. No sore bb's or anything like that. I am now 11 dp 5dt. I would think I'd test + by now but maybe not. I'll try again in the am and hopefully I'll see something!

Sarah

Sorry Sarah and Brenda. I hope you both get +++ tests this week.
My beta's on Friday. I haven't decided yet if I'll POAS before the test. I'm not super optimistic about this cycle so part of me wants to save the HPTs for another time. But I'm pretty impatient and I think it'll be easier to get a BFN if I know it's coming. I'm definitely not testing before Wednesday at the earliest. I have 2 HPTs so if I do test Wed and it's negative, I'll test again Friday morning. Or maybe not....

Amanda

Hi, my name is Kimberly and I am an IVF addict. :lol:

Brenda, Amanda, & Sarah~I'm hanging in there for you guys. . .I'm thinking pregnancy thoughts all around. . .myself included. :crossfing

AF should arrive this coming Sunday. It just so happens that my plan is to be in Vermont skiing that day. We had made these plans long ago to visit my friend and her husband in Vermont. I'm suppossed to contact the RN on the first day of AF to schedule my tests, but I guess should call on Friday instead since AF will probably arrive on Sunday. However, I'm still hoping that AF doesn't arrive at all. :banana: I'm one who usually won't test until at least 14DPO (or I wait for my Beta), but in this case, I think I will test Friday. . . .I hate setting myself up for being in a bad mood before visiting my friend. . .or do I really want to wait until Sunday (they day we're skiing) and just let AF arrive? :confused:

I read your posts about your fears, deciding what to do next, and bodies that feel pregnant--and I have to say that I feel like I've gone through all those same feelings. Should I or should I not have a backup plan?, does having a backup plan mean you're not staying positive?, will I be able to handle the outcome? Will this time be the time that I fall apart? If I feel pregnant, am I pregnant? Am I loosing my mind? Do I want it so much that I've imagined it? Are these pg signs here to help me stay positive? Will the next time be the time that I'll decide that I don't want children? What will life be like when I'm not tccing? Will my days be happier? Or will other issues come up to take it's place? Has *God* only given me one big thing to suffer with because that's all I can deal with? But what happens when the tcc suffering comes to an end? Will that be the time for something awful to take it's place? Am I being prepared for worse tragedies in my life? What are the lessons that am learning? Am I seeing them clearly? Am I getting the most I can out of this tradedy? Or are these tradegies? Is it really supposed to be like this because in the end, it will have been better for this to happen?
And the list goes on. :screwy: I journal at home because I have so many emotions around this that it's often hard for me to comprehend.

Suzi~Kudos to you for getting your Dr. to listen to you and DH and to seriously consider a different protocal. That's excellent! And thanks for the picture comment. . . .I like seeing myself smile too. :awink:

Kimberly

Well still nothing for me. I tested this am and still nothing. But then last night I started have very sore bb's. I don't usually get that with PMS, only with pgy. But I am not getting a +. I just don't get it. I really really thought I was pg. Would have bet money on it but I'm not getting my +. I should by now. Tomorrow is my beta so I guess I'll know for sure soon enough. Part of me can't believe we aren't pg since I feel so pg. But then the other part is a bit mad that I let myself get so involved that I will truly be crushed if I'm not. I just really feel pg. God I hope this isn't my mind just wanting it so badly I really feel like it when I'm not. I'll you all know when I hear.

Amanda I wish you big luck!!

Brenda wasn't your beta today? How did it go? I'm crossing my fingers for you!

Kimberly I really hope that you won't be calling your doctor soon with that kind of news, hopefully it will just be to get betas done!!!

Sarah

Sarah, I REALLY hope this cycle worked for you, too! If it didn't, don't be too hard on your mind for playing tricks on you because the PIO mimics PG symptoms! Nausea, bloated, sleepy, sore BBs, etc...ALL PIO s/e. You really HAVE been feeling those things!! :bighug: I'll be praying so hard for you!

Kimberly - I hope you have a wonderful ski vacation! I'm very jealous! No advice from me on when to test since I can't decide for myself.
Sarah - I'm sorry you keep getting negatives. I totally know the feeling. The PIO and estrogen definitely give me every pregnancy symptom known to mankind (or I guess womankind?). Good luck!
Suzi - Words of wisdom!

Not alot going on. It seemed like my 2ww was dragging and now it seems like my transfer was only yesterday. I'm afraid to test b/c I'm afraid that I'll be really disappointed even though our expectations are low.

Amanda

Delurking to just say I hope to see some +++'s in here soon. Hang in there Amanda, Sarah and Brenda!

I caved and did a HPT. It says "not pregnant." I haven't given up yet but I did get a BFP with Nathaniel by this time.

Amanda

We went for an u/s today. We saw the sac with a yolk sac in it...right on target with what the doc would expect to see at this point. I'm breathing a little sigh of relief.

Amanda ~ Hopefully you just tested early. You're in my thoughts.

AngCTRealtor ~ :welcome:

From my journal:

Well I got the call and it's offical this cycle was a bust. I'm not pg. I got the same nurse I always seem to get and I feel so badly for her. I know that has to be the suckiest part of her job. I could just hear it in her voice how very sorry she really was. I told her that I already knew cause I cheated. I tried to sound as upbeat as I could just cause I hate breaking down on the phone with them. I was able to hold out until I hung up. I did mention how the PIO was giving me very large lumps that were red, itchy and hot and she said that I was probably allergic to the progesterone. Last time I didn't have this problem. Now my whole upper backside is swollen and hurts like hell. She said to bring that up when we meet with our RE and he would most likely give me cream the next time around.

I'm hanging in there. I guess I was prepared, as prepared as one can be. I'm still very sad and disappointed. It makes me tear up just writting about it. I haven't told our families yet. I need to let it sink in some first. I have to gear up so I don't break down when I talk to them. I just hate hearing the sadness in their voices. I'm so sick of hearing that. It's been a year and a half of this crap and I'm so tired.

Sarah

Oh Sarah, I'm so sorry :bighug:

Sarah, I am so sorry!

mine was negative as well...

On to #7

Brenda, I am so sorry. :bighug:

Brenda ~ Sorry to hear your news.

Sarah and Brenda, I'm so sorry :bighug:
Pam, I'm so happy for you!

As for me, I started the Lupron last Friday. I'm waiting on AF, she should be here in the next couple of days.

Brenda & Sarah~I'm so, so very sorry. :sadhug: :disbelief

Kimberly

Ana, I am starting the prayers already!

Brenda and Sarah - I'm really sorry.
Ana - Keeping things crossed for you.

I took another HPT today (so much for restraint). Tom and I both think there may have been a very, very faint line but I wouldn't bet on it. Tomorrow's the big day...

Amanda

And CONGRATS Pam! Sending sticky vibes!

Amanda

Amanda, you're still in my prayers!

Here's what happened this morning...

http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b5dc04b3127cce903b3470a0bb00000016109IZtmzNo1s

I can't even believe it. We'll see what the blood test says...

Amanda

Brenda I'm so sorry honey.

amanda that is great, congrats! I hope everything turns out great for you!

Sarah

Amanda~Awesome! :banana:

:woo: Amanda!

Here's what happened this morning...

http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b5dc04b3127cce903b3470a0bb00000016109IZtmzNo1s

I can't even believe it. We'll see what the blood test says...

Amanda

Well....DUH!!! :doh: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! :yippee: Be sure to let us know your beta results!

HCG = 30. I'm still in shock...

Amanda

Sarah and Brenda, I'm so sorry. :blue:

Pam and Amanda, Great news!

Can't wait to hear the next beta results! Music to my ears! :nod:

Congratulations, Amanda!!!! :yippee: :yippee:

Jennifer

Amanda and Pam~ Congrats!

I am so sorry Bren and Sarah.

Hi Kim, Ana and Suzi!

We are probably going to do IVF again later in the year. Right now we are just taking it easy and concentrating on finishing the house projects. I have to say it really has kept my mind off of babies for a bit. This week was tough though, just seemed to be babies everywhere around me. Our RE is coming out with a shared risk IVF plan. It is 26 k with a 70% return if no baby after three IVF and 3 frozen embryo transfers. It is so much money! Also, right know in CT they are trying to pass an Infertility mandate to make it so that employers have to cover infertility treatment as well as IVF. It is looking very positive. So we are praying that it gets mandated this year. What a relief that would be. Every state that surrounds CT has this mandate, Rhode Island, Mass, NY so why not CT. Please keep your fingers crossed!

OOps,

Hi Jen and Happy Birthday! Wow! 15 weeks already!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JENNIFER!
Angela - 26K is expensive. I hope the insurance mandate goes thru.
Thanks everyone. Anxiously awaiting Monday's test results.

Amanda

Happy Birthday, Jen!!! :bday:

Angela, $26K to me sounds like an awful lot for three cycles - that doesn't even include your drugs!! I did FOUR fresh cycles AND had an emergency ectopic surgery last year and the total I paid to my RE's office was only $25K (never thought I'd say "only" to that!). I'd really check into other centers near you to make sure their prices aren't too high. Most of all, I hope your state mandate comes through. I SERIOUSLY considered moving to another state when we found out we had to do IVF.

Suzi, yes I thought the 26k was a lot too. I have been looking elsewhere and one I found down south is about 24k with a 100% return if no baby. I have seen them range from 18 k to 21k. The other thing to think about is if we go elsewhere we have to take travel expenses and time off from work in to account. So it might just even out. Our RE and only another office in CT do the shared risk. The other office is in Norwalk and 1.5 hr ride. I want to move to Mass but I can not convince DH. The other option is for me to find a job in Mass. We will see. I am just praying hard that mandate come through. It would make this battle a whole heck of a deal easier, if it could possibly be.

Angela - That's alot to think about.

My repeat HCG is tomorrow so please keep fingers crossed that it's rising appropriately.

Amanda

Hi. I don't mean to butt in but I've been hearing tons of radio commercials here for Shady Grove Fertility Center near DC. They have a shared risk plan that includes 6 cycles and 100% return if no baby. I don't know how much it is, though. They don't tell you that.

Good luck everyone!

Hi Brooke, I think that is the one I came across. It is something definitely to think about. I wonder if I could do the Bloodwork and ultrasounds up here and then just go down there for my retrieval and transfers? That would be more doable. 6 cycles and 100% is awesome. They sound very confident.

Ang - I just checked their website. They have a whole protocol set up for people who are out of state. http://www.shadygrovefertility.com/shared_outofstate.cfm

I am in no way promoting this clinic. I just hear about them all the time because they are local.

Amanda ~ Sooo happy to *hear* your news! I will be thinking about you tomorrow morning.

Not to be a big fat downer on the shared risk programs but...there's a REASON they offer your money back - they MAKE money on these programs! Of course it differs by age (but not that much) but the MAJORITY of women will get PG within 3 IVF cycles. So STATISTICALLY you have a 33% chance (or better) of getting PG the first IVF and paying $30K for a baby (when you could've paid just $10K), a 66% chance of paying $30K for a baby when you could've only paid $20K...you get the picture. It's just like the casinos in Vegas, the IVF centers don't offer these shared risk programs because they are being generous. They make money off them - BIG money.

I am not trying to sway anyone away from shared risk programs, just be VERY-VERY-VERY careful what you get yourself into or you could end up paying TRIPLE what you would've had you NOT done the shared risk program.

AF arrived today so I can finally get this going. I've hated all the waiting around the last few months.

I heard back from the nurse at my RE's office and I'm scheduled to go in on Thursday for a baseline ultrasound and bloodwork. I'll be on CD4 then. Does that sound okay?

Last IVF, I had the baseline on CD2 and started Follistim that night. I know this time around they are keeping me on 10 ccs of Lupron because I respond so quickly to the stims and I'm to take a baby aspirin everyday, but that was the only changes they talked about.

I'm just worried about going in to late.

Ana, you can rest your mind...that is typical for women with PCOS. They start you later because women who have PCOS react so quickly/strongly to the stim drugs. If I remember last time, they had to back you off of stims to slow you down, right?? I wouldn't worry - sounds like you're right where you should be! YIPPEE!!! :yippee:

That's what I was hoping you'd say Suzi! Thanks, I feel better now.

HOORAY Ana for getting started!

Amanda

Unfortunately, some not good news for me. My HCG went down from 30 to 28. As the nurse said, this is not a good sign. I still take my injections and get my blood tested again on Thursday.

Amanda

Amanda, I know that pain all too well - all I can say is I am SO sorry.

I'm so sorry Amanda. :(


Ana.... I'm going to be there Thursday morning too!!! :lol: I have a saline ultrasound
to check for uterine abnormalities at 9:30 with Dr. Lawani. :)

Thanks everyone. I know everyone here has been there. I just wish if this stupid cycle isn't going to work, let it end! It's the limbo that's so frustrating. I didn't expect this cycle to work in the 1st place and now it feels like we got our hopes up for nothing. I knew 30 was a low starting point so I'm not totally surprised.

Amanda

I just wish if this stupid cycle isn't going to work, let it end! It's the limbo that's so frustrating. I didn't expect this cycle to work in the 1st place and now it feels like we got our hopes up for nothing.

Amanda

You said it. It really rots. I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. :sadhug:

Kimberly

Amanda, I'm so sorry :bighug:

Brenda, I'll be there for 7:20 so I'll miss you :(

Thanks Kimberly and Ana.

Amanda

Amanda :bighug:

Amanda I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sending you big hugs. I know how it is when you get your hopes up. I was really hoping everything would be ok for you.

Sarah

I never tested before I went on my long weekend vacation. I was going skiing and visiting with one of my best friends and her husband and seeing their new house in Vermont for the first time and I just wanted to arrive feeling good about things. DH and I had such a great time on our visit from the moment we walked through their door. . . . and on the eve of CD28 when AF hadn't arrived, I was like, :banana: Unfortunately, I woke up on CD29 and there she was. :mope: We had plans to enjoy a delicious breakfast at a "famous" country diner and really, there just wasn't time to cry. I called the RN on the drive back to Boston to set up my Clomid challenge/3 day FSH and all the other tests. Today was my 3 day. I start Clomid on Friday :crazy: and then back next Wednesday for 10 day FSH. Upon walking into the clinic this morning, I felt so incredibly sad that after four years, I'm still doing this. I guess I just wished I was still in Vermont, feeling like I didn't have a care in the world. Lordy, if I'm feeling this melancholy now, I dread to see what my next week on Clomid brings.

:blue: Kimberly

Kimberly ~ Sorry to hear about AF's arrival :bighug: I hope that you enjoyed your time in Vermont. I just love it there!

Sorry about AF, Kimberly.
Thanks for all the support.

My RE (finally) called last night. I was a bit disappointed that he hadn't been in touch sooner, given the whole transfer fiasco and then my HCG numbers not rising. Anyway... This is likely a chemical pregnancy. If my HCG doesn't go up today, I will stop taking my meds and get AF. We talked about the plan after this. I just don't have the time to do another IVF cycle. Work is too busy and I can't take the time off right now (I'm graduating residency in June so this is a really important time in my training). Given that I have been getting AF on my own since I stopped breast feeding, we decided to try a "low tech" approach. I'm going to give Clomid another try. My RE felt that we have a pretty good chance of getting PG with Clomid.

Amanda

Amanda~If your RE believes you can just as easily get pregnant with Clomid, then that's great! You did say that since you've had your first child, you've seen an improvement in your cycles. I wish you all the best. :bighug:

Thanks Kimberly. I'm not sure he thinks I'll get PG as easily but he thinks it has a reasonable chance of working.
My HCG was 3.5 today which is officially considered negative. I'm off my injections and waiting for AF so we can start Clomid.

Amanda

Amanda, I am sorry that things turned out the way they did. I hope the clomid does its job and you never have to do IVF again!! :nod:

I just thought I'd ask....has anyone here ever heard of Ovulex??

I am so sorry, Amanda. I am hoping clomid will give you baby # 2.

Suzi~Ovulex. . .it's vaguely familiar, I know I've heard it before but I can't recall where. . .:confused:

Today I start Clomid for my Clomid Challenge. :rolleyes: The last time I took Clomid was about 3 years ago. I was reading the prescription information and along with the usual side effects, it says that if you have such side effects as vision problems, to contact your Dr. right away. Well I had vision problems when I took it the last time and I never called the Doc. :dunno: I know I'm probably more anxious from the anticipation of how the Clomid will affect me this time than the reality of it. . .but still, I'm not looking forward to this. :blue:

Kimberly

Suzi - I've heard of ovulex on the boards but I don't know anything about it.
Kimberly - If AF ever arrvies for me, we'll be on Clomid together.

Still waiting for AF so we can finally move on. I have my clomid waiting to be used.

Amanda

Hey Kimberly,

I got this email reminder today and thought of you - hope you see this in time...




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Date: Wednesday, March 9, 2005
Time: 8:00-9:00 PM (EST)
Special Guest: David Tourgeman, M.D., (Huntington Reproductive Center in CA)
Subject: Surrogacy and Other Third Party Reproduction and General Infertility Questions Being Answered

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Warmly,
The AFA Staff




Since they are covering 3rd party reproduction I thought there may be some info about DEs. They have great chats - I've joined several myself!

Suzi~Thanks for forwarding! I'm going to try to join in tonight. :justahug:

Kimberly

I'm finally CD 1. Bring on the clomid...

Amanda

:crossfing

Thanks Suzi. How was the discussion last night?

Amanda

Just stopping in to say that retrieval should be on Monday! I go in for another u/s tomorrow but today's u/s showed at least 25 follies measuring from 15-22!

Wow ana that is awesome! Good luck tomorrow!!

Sarah

Ana, I will be saying some prayers for you!

Wow Ana, that's a lot of follicles! :crossfing

Best of luck Ana! That sounds great!

Amanda

On Saturday, I counted 38 follies at the u/s wich is a lot more than I had the last time. I'm so bloated that I already look 6 mths pg. I keep telling myself, it's all for a good cause :lol: Retrieval is tomorrow. Wish me luck.

Good luck Ana!

Good luck, Ana! :)

Jennifer

Good luck tomorrow Ana :crossfing

Holy Cow Ana! that is awesome. You are the follie queen! I hope that all goes well today and you get a ton of great eggies. Will you freeze if you have extra?

Sarah

Good luck today Ana! :)

:crossfing

Ana~Good Luck. :yippee:

Kimberly

Ana, I have been thinking of you and hope things went well!

Hope everything went great!

Amanda

Me too! I'm thinking of you and hope that all went great!

Ana,

Hope you had a great retrieval and all is well.

Angela

The retrieval went well. We got 14 eggs. I'm not sure what was going on with Justin's collection but the embryologist was a bit concerned so she had him do it again and if that one wasn't good enough, they would do ICSI. They were supposed to call and let us know what happened but they didn't. They'll definately call me tomorrow though. I've been extremely crampy. It was a lot worse than the last retrieval, but the nurse said that it was normal because I had so many follies and these were a lot bigger than the last time. As soon as I hear anything tomorrow, I'll let you guys know. Keep saying your prayers. I'm a bit nervous about fertilization.

Ana, as always...I wil be saying prayers for you! Don't worry about the fert - ICSI is the only way we've EVER fertilized eggs and it's worked just fine! :nod:

Make sure you let us know! :bighug:

Fingers crossed for the fertilitzation report!

Amanda

14 is great. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you! ICSI is great so I'm sure everything will be wonderful! Keep us posted, thinking of you.:)

Sarah

The embryologist called and said that she did half with ICSI and the other half the regular way. 9 fertilized but 2 were abnormal so we're left with 7 that look good. I should be happy with 7 but it sucks that I started off with 14 eggs and only half are left. She also mentioned possibly transferring them tomorrow instead of Thursday if she thought it was best for them. She'll call me a couple of hours before transfer if we do it tomorrow and if it's Thursday, then the RE will call me with instructions for Thursday.

7!!! 7 is a good number.. I wouldn't be too upset that half of them didn't make it... I usually lose 1/2 of mine too. I think it's normal.

Big hugs to you

Ana, getting 7 embryos out of 14 eggs is PERFECT!!! That is quite normal and you shouldn't fret about it at all. I will keep the prayers coming for the transfer - let us know when it will be! :pray:

I know it's hard to think 7 is good from 14 but like the others girls said it is pretty darn good. There are always some that aren't mature enough, too mature or just not right. I hope all 7 look awesome in the next day or two! Let us know what they say. Hang in there!
Hugs!
Sarah

Ana - Sending prayers for the transfer!!!

Amanda

Hi all....

Looks like I go in tomorrow for baselines. I'd never heard of going in before the start of AF, but apparently NEMC does them around day 18 of the pill. :shrug:

This means I could be starting stims as early as Monday. *faint*

Insurance approved us for 2 more cycles... apparently they're getting tired of looking at my file.

I'll be going in at 9:00 for transfer. Please wish me luck.

9 tonight? tomorrow?

I'll probably see you tomorrow then... baselines around that time.

9 tomorrow.

:crossfing for you tomorrow, Ana!

DItto here!

Good luck Ana!! Please let us know how it goes. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow!

Brenda wow that is quick. I hope all goes well tomorrow!

After a lot of research on line I am going to ask my RE to put me back on glucophage. From what I am reading women with PCOS and recurrent m/c's once on glucophage have a MUCH lower rate of m/c. Since the PCOS with insulin resistance(what I have) effects the quality of the eggs as well as other hormones that can cause the embie to m/c the glucophage really helps with all of that and in turn causes a much lower rate, that of a normal women. I wonder if this could be my problem. Obviously it is the eggs or the embies once fertalized. So after talking to Brandon and looking up some things we are going to try it. It was a very hard decision to make. I am scared to death of losing another baby. But we trying to come up with the PGD money is really tough. So I think we'll give it a go. I still have to talk to my RE my appointment is on 4/1. If he agrees I'll start it right away and then we'll start trying again in May maybe June. We still need a little break I think. I need to start making some money for our regular bills. Hopefully this will be the key and we won't need to go back to IVF or do the PGD.

Sarah

Ana - Fingers crossed
Bren - Wow! That's soon!!!
Sarah - That would be great if glucophage helps.

Not much news from me...

Amanda

Ana, I hope all went well!! STICKY VIBES for you!! ~#~#~#~#~#~#~

Sarah, I hope that the gluc works - sounds like a good shot to me!

Brenda, how about your baselines??

Baselines went great! I take the BCP until Monday... then I stop them, and start Stims on Friday Morning. (next Friday) Not sure about what I'm taking yet.. but I know follistim, repronex, and antagon for sure... and possibly an estrogen patch too.

:yippee: YIPPEE Brenda!! Here we go!!! :crazy:

Brenda, I watched for you, but no one was in the office when Justin and I got there.

The transfer went great. We transferred 3 embryos. The doctor kept trying to convince me to do only 2 because of my age, risk of triplets and complications of being pg with triplets, but I wanted to do 3 so we did 3. The only way I would have done only 2 was if Justin wasn't okay with it. He started getting really nervous when they kept bringing up triplets so I left the decision to him. I told him I doubted we'd have triplets but if it happened then obviously we'd have to deal with it. He said to do three because if the two we transferred didn't work, we'd always wonder if the third would have. Anyway, I know 2 of them were perfect 7-cell embryos, I'm not sure of the third. I've been laying down ever since we got home from the hospital. Neither Justin or my mom will even let me get up :lol:

Brenda, good luck!

Sarah, have you ever been on gluc? I was on it for a while and I had to get off because it made me so sick. I hope it's not the same for you.

Ana that is awesome! I know it is hard to make that call. We did three our first IVF too.(I had JUST turned 24) We were worried about triplets too but we had just one perfect little guy! I will be sending you some big SBV's! And yes I have been on the gluco before. I think it was for a good two years. I don't remember having any back s/e from it, hopefully I won't this time either. Although my stomach seems to be more sensitive to these meds. The bcp's I had for the FET made me very sick.

Brenda that is great! I'm sure the next couple weeks will wiz by.

Sarah

Good luck Ana! :)

Brenda - Glad the baseline was good!
Ana - Sticky vibes!!!
Sarah - Hope the glucophage goes well!
I'm done with clomid and waiting to O...

Amanda

Ana, that's TERRIFIC!!! Keep your feet up and let Mom and Justin wait on you - it doesn't happen every day!! :lol2:

So when do you go for your beta?

Sarah, did they put you on the Extended RElease version? That's what I'm on.. 1500mg a day.. and I hardly EVER get sick.. The regular stuff kept me in the bathroom all the time, so they switched over to the XR and so far I love it!

Ana!!!!! 3!!!! Last time I wanted 4, and they talked us out of it! :lol: Now I wonder what would have been, ya know? I'm glad you put 3 in.
I'm sorry I missed you yesterday. I didn't get there until 10am.. traffic tie up on the pike! Then when I got there I sat and talked to Sue for about an hour, going over my cycle plan.

So that's why Sue didn't do my transfer! You were hogging her :lol: Sue did my retrieval/transfer the last time and my retrieval this time so I was surprised when Barbara was the one to do it.

Don't you just LOVE Sue??? She is just a hoot! She was telling me yesterday that
she's one of those people you heard about on the news who was almost arrested for
screaming at people stealing her "dug out" parking spot in front of her house. I guess she lives in Boston.. and was having to dig out of the snow all the time... so she'd put a trash can in her spot. :lol: She said that worked until the city came by and picked up her trashcan. So she played it smart.. said they cleaned out the basement and was putting things out there that they wanted to get rid of.
*snort*


How does retreival work there??? Sue goes in with you??

At Brigham, the "unit" where they did retreival and transfer had it's own set of nurses... so you didn't see familiar faces.

she's one of those people you heard about on the news who was almost arrested for
screaming at people stealing her "dug out" parking spot in front of her house. I guess she lives in Boston.. and was having to dig out of the snow all the time... so she'd put a trash can in her spot. :lol: She said that worked until the city came by and picked up her trashcan. So she played it smart.. said they cleaned out the basement and was putting things out there that they wanted to get rid of.
*snort*


That's funny. I know a lot of people who suffered with parking pains. Tons of my friends didn't move their cars at all and took the T until the snow melted.

Ana~It sounds great! I've got my fingers crossed.

Brenda~Good Luck!

Amanda~May Mr. spermy and Ms. eggie meet up in perfect and healthy bliss.

Not too much new on my end. I'm getting through all these blood tests and what not right now. :crazy: Most of the blood test are done but I still need to have my Pap and my mammogram--both are already scheduled. I also have to do another hsg, but that's not until my next AF. I'm still working diligently at trying to get pregnant on my own! :crossfing I'm glad I have the donor egg thing in the works, but I'm so very much hoping for a miracle beforehand.

Kimberly

Brenda I was on the regular stuff last time but I never got sick so I'm hoping the same will hold true. But if not I'm glad there is another version out there to try!

It's funny to hear about the parking. When we lived in Chicago(when I was younger) it wasn't uncommon at all for people to leave chairs or horses made of wood to save their spots.

I hope we get a + here soon!

Sarah

Parking in NY can be a bit like that, too. Especially with snow on the ground. I do NOT miss fighting for a parking space on the street every night after work...

Kimberly - Thank you. I hope you get your miracle before the donor egg!
Sarah - I was like Brenda on the regular glucophage; in the bathroom all day! I'm glad you don't have that reaction!

Amanda

good luck Ana! I wanted to do 3 last time also and I Still wonder what have might have been. They refused to do 3, they didn't even give me a choice.

I did the gluc and the XR too and the side effects for me were awful. I was constantly running to the bathroom and I have a long ride to work and of course it would hit me at that time. It is the worst feeling in the world. I had to stop it, I couldn't deal with it anymore. It is too bad because it is a good thing. what time do you all take it? I would take it right before bed time. I was thinking maybe if I took it in the morning, it wouldn't effect me so much until I was home.hmmm..

When I was on the gluc and the XR I tried it at different times of the day and no matter what, I was always sick. My sister, on the other hand, is on it now and has never had one side effect and has been able to lose over 70 lbs while she's been on it.

Angela, I can't believe they refused to do 3. I think it's your choice. I understand the risks and yes, I'm petrified if I do end up with triplets, but it's a chance I'm willing to take.

Ana, I think you did the right thing (and Angela, I'd be investigating different centers!). Although there is a RISK of triplets, the chance is SO low. Heck, you have a better chance of an ectopic that requires emergency surgery - and YOUR life is in danger in that situation no matter how many you put back!

I am starting to think about my upcoming cycle. I want to get back on my diet before I start - since Thanksgiving I've gained back 10lbs of the 25 I lost. :rolleyes: If I can lose 20lbs I will be back where I was when I got PG with Julia and I'd be happy with that. I gained a mere 5lbs through 33 weeks when I was PG with Julia (after that I gained a whopping 40lbs of water in just 4 short weeks) so I know I can eat well and maintain weight (if not lose) while I am PG. Chris and I still have to talk about what protocol we want to do...I am just afraid that if we switch to an estrogen priming protocol we will never know what could've happened with a long-stim protocol (one that has proven effective before). I also have to call tomorrow to find out if our testing has been approved by insurance. We need to get that done before our next cycle, too.

It feels strange to be coming up on our cycle (we will start with my cycle that comes between May 11 - June 7). It'll be here before I know it, seems forever since we've done a cycle!

Believe me, next time we will be doing three or they will have a raving lunatic in their office on the day of transfer! lol A coworker of mine was my age when they transferred 4 and only one took. On the other hand, we know of someone who is now PG with triplets after many failed IVF's and she is well past 28 weeks and doing well. Nonetheless, I agree getting PG with triplets is slim. It is definitely a risk I would take at this point.

Suzi~ Good luck with the upcoming cycle. I am sure you will reach your weight loss goal.

Angela, when they were trying to talk me out of doing 3, they were telling me all these percentages and the rate of triplets only increases by 2% (I can't remember the exact numbers) so that's not much of a risk to me.

Suzi, good luck!

I agree it's worth the risk. And wow 70 lbs is awesome. I need to lost at least that to be ideal. I'd be happy with a good 40-50 though. I do remember losing a tiny bit the last time. I do have IBS so maybe that's why I didn't notice any s/e, I had that one already!:lol: It's good to know that there will be an alternate if I should get sick. I can't wait until our appointment. I really wish they could have gotten us in sooner.

Sarah

It feels strange to be coming up on our cycle (we will start with my cycle that comes between May 11 - June 7). It'll be here before I know it, seems forever since we've done a cycle!


Suzi~I'm excited for you. :jump:

Suzi - That's so exciting that your cycle is coming up!

I'm CD14 and waiting for ovulation to occur (IF it's going to). It's been so long since I've done the temping, OPK thing.

Amanda

Suzi, I can't wait for your next cycle!
Amanda, are you still waiting to ovulate? I only ovulated on my first cycle with clomid and then stopped responding for the other three, even though they increased the dose each time.

So I'm dying to test, but I know it's too soon and I'm petrified to see that's its negative. When do you guys think I can? I would love to do it on Easter Sunday and it be positive and share the news with our families, but if it was negative I would be devastated and would probably be sad. What should I do? Would that be to early anyway? I trigged on Saturday, the 12, the retrieval was on the 14 and the transfer on the 17th. HELP!!!

I'd say that the earliest you can test is Saturday.. If you tested now, you'd probably still have a trace of trigger... but Saturday would give you time to let the POSITIVE sink in. :)

I'm CD14 and waiting for ovulation to occur (IF it's going to). It's been so long since I've done the temping, OPK thing.

Amanda


Amanda~Oh, it's like riding a bike. :awink:

Ana~O.K. You asked. I'm sure this is my opinion simply because I've had so many negatives, but I would NOT test on Easter Sunday. :no: If it's positive, great! But I probably wouldn't tell anyone anyway until a blood test because my HPT positives have been ectopics. :blue: If it's a negative, it would make for a miserable day for me with my family. If I don't know either way, I usually remain hopeful (and in a good mood) until the blood test.
When I use an HPT or know I'm getting a blood test, I totally clear my day so that I'm not a blubbering mess in front of my co-workers, family, or friends.
But that's just my 2 cents.

Ana, the trigger shot can be in your system for UP TO 14 days after injection, "UP TO" being key... That said, I test NEGATIVE a mere 7 days after the trigger shot. You can MOST LIKELY test safely today or tomorrow although it MIGHT be too early to get a BFP. If you test with an FRE you can get a BFP up to 4 days before AF is due to show up - which for their purposes would be considered Sunday for you.

I would advise against testing early - but I always give that advice. I have personally known several people put themselves through HE** thinking they got a BFN when the beta was a BFP and it's just not worth it.

Whatever you decide to do, let us know!! :pray:

Ana - I would echo what Suzi and Kimberly said. You don't want to set yourself up to be disappointed, especially when it might be for no reason.

Amanda

I got up this morning and then took this:

http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b5dd07b3127cce9082a69a24cc00000016108AbMXLdo0bNW

I'm still shaking. Do you see it? It's very, very faint. But it's there. OMG! Justin and I can't stop smiling. Please pray that this is really happening. I'm so scared to find out I'm wrong. Miracles really do happen!

Oh Anna that is so wonderful!! Congrats honey. I hope everything goes very well from here on out!

Sarah

HOORAY Ana!

Amanda

I see it, Ana. :)
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! :yippee:

Jennifer

I see it plain as day!! There's no such thing as a FALSE positive so hang in there!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Congratulations Ana! :crossfing for a happy, healthy 9 months! :)

Good for you Ana! I will be a wonderful Easter afterall. :nod: :yippee:

Kimberly

Omg Ana!!!!!!!!!!!

Omgomgomg!!!!!!!!!! I See It!!!!

Omg....

Ana congratulations!!!! :bighug:

:rahrah: Yay!!!!!!!! I'm so happy for you Ana! :woo:

Ana - When's your blood test???

Amanda

Isn't it today?? I'm sitting on pins and needles for results!!! :nod: Ana, when are you supposed to get them?

Me too! I'm so excited for you Ana!

Ana, I know this isn't my thread, but I saw someone's profile line and had to come in here and congratulate you! I'm so, so excited for you!!!

any news yet, ana?

It's tomorrow :lol: But I have been testing everyday and the line has gotten darker. I'll let you know tomorrow as soon as I hear something (probably around 2:30).

Fingers crossed for the blood test tomorrow!!!!

Amanda

That is so awesome ana. Yeah for the darker tests. I'm sure everything will be good today. I'm so happy we have another graduate here, we really needed it!

Sarah

I have great news (no, I haven't gotten results from the doc's yet) but I met Brenda today! We passed each other in the hallway, said hi, but kept walking. I thought to myself that maybe it was her so I tried getting my paperwork from Joy as fast as I could so I could meet up with her upstairs for bloodwork. I figured if we both got there pretty much at the same time, then they'd have to say one of our names. Anyway, I get upstairs and she's walking past the lab so I figured it wasn't her, but then she turns around and calls my name! She is so sweet and pretty! It was great to finally meet her.

Anyway, I tested again this morning and there was a line. I swear it was a little lighter though so I'm a little nervous, but maybe it was just my imagination and I didn't give it enough time. I cannot wait until this afternoon!

That is so great. Isn't is awesome when you finally get to meet someone you've talked to all the time? And you are right not to put thought in the line. Those tests aren't good to compare line to line unless it is a major major difference.(like you had a super dark line and several days later there is a super faint one) So you are good not to worry about it. I can't wait to hear how high your hcg is, I'll bet it is a nice number!!!

Sarah

LOLOL..... I was just coming here to post the same thing Ana!!!! :lol:

I got there way early and did bloodwork first off because Barbara wasn't ready for me... but then when I passed you in the hall, I thought... hmmmmmmmm.. that's Ana! I had no idea you would be this tall STUNNINGLY beautiful woman! Well I had some idea.. but still. :lol: It was SOOO nice to finally meet you!


Good news at the ultrasound! I had 10-15 (she lost count) follicles at 10mm, and a bunch coming up behind... but the GREAT news is that my LINING is at 10mm!!!!!!!!!
HOLY CRAP! In all 6 IVF cycles and 3 IUI cycles.. it's never been over 6mm! I just about started crying on the ultrasound table. I had her check it again in the end and it was still a 10mm. :lol:

Bad news though... my husband's job is sending him to Philly for a few weeks starting MONDAY.. which means he'll miss retrieval and transfer. He'll be able to freeze sperm before he leaves, but I'll have no one to drive me home from retrieval!
I spoke with the nurse and she said they can't release me unless someone is with me, but she's going to brainstorm with the other nurse and find out if I'd be allowed to go home via Limo, which means I'd have to rent one for the day probably... *sigh* It's never really easy, is it?

Bren, that's awesome!!!!! :jump: Sorry Glen won't be around for it though :( I hope you get the ride thing worked out though. I'm sure you will. :bighug:

Ana & Brenda~That's awesome that you two got a chance to meet up with one another. Of course, if you'll were being "serviced" at Boston IVF, I'm sure we'd meet. I feel like I live there. They all know me by name. . .no one has to look down and check my records anymore when I enter a room :crazy:

Brenda~Things are looking great for you! I hope you can find someone to take you home. Mmmmm. What day is your retrieval? I could possible be of help! Let me know.

Hopefully Ana's good news will bring more luck to this thread. :yippee:

I had my mammogram on Saturday. :rolleyes: Can I just say, I felt like crying. DH came with me and we sat in the waiting room together. There was a certain point however where you go into another room where no men are allowed. I was on my own in the second waiting room. There were about 4 other women ahead of me and they were all. . .old. I mean, they all had grey hair. . .probably all in their '60's. I was like, "I'm not supposed to be here. I'm in a Rock & Roll band, I still want to get a tatoo!, I still shop at H & M and the Gap and Express!" :scratch: I don't know, I guess it just felt like reality hit me. Like, Damn! I'm getting old!

Anyway, the woman who did my mammogram was really nice. It turns out that she had one child and then had trouble concieving again, so she did several IUI's and then an IVF, which resulted in her twin girls 7 years after her first child. :dunno: I was giving her a brief synopsis of my IF history and why I'm ready for donor egg and she said the same thing everyone says, "I think you'll get pregnant on your own." I have confidence that it will happen, everyone I know has confidence it will happen, it's just the Universe's karma that doesn't seem to want to recognize this! :furious:

Wow! I haven't had a vent in a while. :awink: Anyway, just in case you might want to know, they basically squeeze your breasts (really hard) between 2 glass plates and take pictures of it. So, I've done it. Gotten it over with. :nod: I'm just waiting for AF, then I'll schedule my HSG, then all our tests will be done and we'll be closer to getting this donor egg thing started.

Kimberly

I wish I knew when retrieval is gonna happen. Most likely early next week.
Yanno it's not the ride home that I'm worried about... I'm sure I can get
car service to Littleton. It's being ALONE during retrieval and getting bad
news like I did with #3. (when I bled out on the table and they had to freeze all
of the embryos).

I may be able to get my SIL to come along.... depends on when she gets back from
her business trip and when they leave for their vacation.


Kim that really annoys me.... when someone makes comments like.. "relax and it'll happen" I just want to slap them!!

Mammograms... OUCH! I've had a few since I've had a few lumps that
turned out to be cysts and stretched ligaments. Ultrasounds on the breasts are
almost as bad. They put that KY all over your chest and roll that freakin' wand all
over your chest.

Brenda that is great on the follies. I wish I lived near you I'd sit with you.:) Hang in there you'll make it thru this. You are a very strong person! I wish your hubby could be with you.:(

Kimberly only one more and you're done with tests! I hope everything goes well and you'll be done before you know it!

Sarah

I wish I knew when retrieval is gonna happen. Most likely early next week.
Yanno it's not the ride home that I'm worried about... I'm sure I can get
car service to Littleton. It's being ALONE during retrieval and getting bad
news like I did with #3. (when I bled out on the table and they had to freeze all
of the embryos).



Oh Brenda that sounds horrible. I can understand why you'd just want someone there for moral support. :bighug: Still, let me know if there's anyway I could be of help if you're in a pinch. If you think it's a possibility, I'll PM you my contact information. . .just let me know.

Kimberly

BETA is 145!

I haven't been around these threads in ages but I thought what the heck today - visit old stomping grounds.

CONGRATULATIONS Ana!!! How exciting!!! That's a great number. Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!

Kimberly - ouch! Sorry for the crappy mammogram experience. At least it's only once a year, right?

Brenda - good luck. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to go through the cycle alone. I hope you can get someone to be there with you!!

BETA is 145!



145!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *pass out*

That's a pretty solid number for this early, right???

Was Sue happy or what? She must have called me
right after she called you... because she sounding like
she was grinning from ear to ear!

Sue said it was "a very good, solid number" for how far along I am. I go back Thursday for another test. When do you go back Brenda?

Oh Brenda that sounds horrible. I can understand why you'd just want someone there for moral support. :bighug: Still, let me know if there's anyway I could be of help if you're in a pinch. If you think it's a possibility, I'll PM you my contact information. . .just let me know.

Kimberly


You are so sweet :bighug:

Glenn had a long talk with his boss this morning,
and basically explained the situation. And told
his boss that he'd be much more productive if
he didn't have to worry about his wife being alone
thru what is usally a very painful, emotional process.

I guess the other team wasn't thrilled with the delay,
but accepted that he can't start until the following week.

So looks like he'll be with me next week afterall!!!

About 1000 pounds of stress just lifted off my shoulders!

Sue said it was "a very good, solid number" for how far along I am. I go back Thursday for another test. When do you go back Brenda?

I go back tomorrow.. apparently my E2 was high enough that they
want to watch it pretty closely. She told me to start the Antagon
and repronex tonight, and lower the dosage of follistim to 100 instead
of 225. I guess they're trying to keep me from hyperstimming. Hate to
tell them, but I will anyway with that many follicles!

I'll probably see you Thursday too! :lol:

Oh Brenda, I'm so glad to hear Glenn will be with you :woo:

Brenda, I am SO glad that Glenn will be able to be there! At least his boss has a heart! :aok: And I have to tell you - I just about CRIED when I read that your lining is so great!! I am SO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!!

Ana, you are 15 DPO and average hCG is 95, so 145 is TERRIFIC!!! :yippee:

:bteddy: :bteddy::bteddy::bteddy::bteddy: CONGRATULATIONS, MOMMY!!!! :pteddy::pteddy::pteddy::pteddy::pteddy:

Thanks Suzi! Where do you get all your info anyway? I was looking all over for BETA charts and couldn't find any.

Brenda, I'm so happy that Glenn can be with you. What a relief! I'll see you Thursday! I usually get there around 7:30.

http://www.ivfer.com/hcg_survey.htm

Bottom of the page. I have more if you want them (but everyone knew that, didn't they???)... :blush: :lol2:

Ana, I'm just an information FREAK and work (worked) in computers. If it's on the internet, I can find it!! :lol:

Ana - GREAT NEWS!!!
Brenda - I'm so glad your DH can be there. That's much better.
Kimberly - Sorry the mammogram was traumatic but at least it's done.

Amanda

You are so sweet :bighug:

Glenn had a long talk with his boss this morning,
and basically explained the situation. And told
his boss that he'd be much more productive if
he didn't have to worry about his wife being alone
thru what is usally a very painful, emotional process.

I guess the other team wasn't thrilled with the delay,
but accepted that he can't start until the following week.

So looks like he'll be with me next week afterall!!!

About 1000 pounds of stress just lifted off my shoulders!

Brenda~Awesome news!

Ana, I'm just an information FREAK and work (worked) in computers. If it's on the internet, I can find it!!

See? That's exactely why one should go to Suzi if they want to know the facts. :nod:

Well, it's been a *^%& bad day for me. :blue: My co-worker just told me that his wife was pregnant (who I totally know) and he can't believe it and how they never thought it would happen this quickly because they thought they had "problems". :rolleyes: (It's hasn't come to the surface yet, but I am very happy for them). AF just arrived and it's cloudy and raining. :complain:
It's O.K. I'm still not giving up. The donor egg thing is still hovering in my immediate path. :awink: I'm going to focus now on my upcoming vacation. . .a Southern Carribean cruise on April 15th. I'm glad I have fun events in line to remind me that life is still good.

Kimberly

Ana like Suzi said 145 is very awesome for 15 dpo! Yippy for you Momma!!!

Brenda that is so great that DH will be there with you. :)

Kimberly I'm sorry honey. Hopefully the vacation will make you feel better!!

Sarah

Oh wow, lots of good stuff going on in here!!

Ana ~ Great news! I am so happy for you. Congrats Momma! So do I dare even say, are we thinking more than 1 in there?
So if you don't mind me asking did they do anything different this cycle. I am curiuos because my RE said next time we will use repronex and HCG instead of the Lupron to trigger. It just seems to me from people that I know or read about with PCOS get pg the 2nd time around with IVF. I dont know if that is a coincidence or if there is something to it. What do you think? Anyone else?

Brenda~ So glad Glenn will be by your side next week. I can imagine what a great relief that will be for you.

Kim~ Sorry that you're having a crappy day. But just think of that warm sandy beach that is awaiting you very soon. Did I say yet that I am jealous?

Kimberly - I'm sorry it's been a bad day. I'm very jealous of your cruise. While you're in the Caribbean, I'll be taking an intensive boards review course in Chicago.

Amanda

Amanda- I am definitely not jealous of you. I can't even imagine going through that. I am sure you will do well. Good luck!

I am ready for another IVF, but how in the h*ll will we finance it? We have some options such as a Home equity, credit card, etc but is it really the smart thing to do right now.This sucks. I am so ready to pick up and move to MASS. I am praying that the state will mandate it in this year. I should know in a month or so.

Angela, this cycle they had me take a baby aspirin everyday. They also kept me on 10ccs of Lupron the whole time and I took 150 ccs of Follistim the first three days and then they lowered it to 75 units.

The first cycle, they lowered the Lupron to 5ccs when I started the stims. I was on 150ccs of Follistim for 3 days, then they lowered it to 75 for a day and then the rest of the time was 35 ccs.

I respond really fast so they figured that this time if they suppressed my ovaries more with the Lupron, I would be able to be on a higher dose of Follistim to produce more follicles.

I really hope that the IF insurance gets mandated in CT. I know that if it wasn't covered then I would never be able to do it.

Kim, I'm so sorry about the rotten day. I'm glad you have your cruise to look forward too.

Amanda, good luck with your exams.

OMG Ana~ I totally forgot to mention how great your numbers are! This is so great. It's so nice to get such good news in this thread! :banana:

'm sorry it's been a bad day. I'm very jealous of your cruise. While you're in the Caribbean, I'll be taking an intensive boards review course in Chicago.

This is my first cruise. DH and I are typically the backpacking, hippy travelers who do our best not to "act like" American travelers. We joke about how we should tell people that we're Canadians so that they'll be nicer to us. :biggrin: I feel for you on the Boards review. . .but can I say, girl! You got it going! :thumbsup:

Kim the Canadian on the board says, "Go ahead, say you're Canadian but make sure you behave like it eh!" :lol: Sorry about the mammogram and your co-workers wife. Isn't that always the way? I hope the cruise does the trick for you. :)

Brenda Good luck to you and I'm glad your DH will be with you.

Ana! Terrific news! You must be beaming. :)

Amanda good luck at your course/exam.

Kim the Canadian on the board says, "Go ahead, say you're Canadian but make sure you behave like it eh!" :lol:

Lemme just tell ya. I'm cool like that. :dude:

Kim, you will love your cruise. Trust me, girl! The food is awesome as well as the service. What cruise line are ya doing? We cruised on Royal Caribbean for our honeymoon to Bermuda and let me tell ya, I can not wait to do another one.

I'm crusing on Norweigan Cruise Lines. I don't know anything about any other cruise lines to judge the difference. My cousin who works for a travel agency ( specifically cruises) had secured some cabins in Sept. o4, so I got a pretty good deal. DH and I usally vacation with backpacks and tired feet so this will be a very different experience for us. The cool thing is that some friends are joining us as well.
:thumbsup: I'm totally ready to get away.

Kimberly

Angela - I totally hear you on the cost thing. It's ridiculous!
Kimberly - You'll have a GREAT time!

I don't take my written boards until August 5th (not that I'm counting the days or anything) but the big course is much earlier. I'm a pretty good test taker so I'm not THAT nervous. We also take an annual "practice" exam and I did very well this year so that bodes well.
I'm CD 22 and still waiting to O. I guess the clomid isn't doing it's thing...

Amanda

I'm sorry the Clomid isn't working. What dose are you? It only worked for me the first month and then the rest of the time I never responded to it, despite them increasing the dosage.

Thanks Ana! I'm on 100mg.

Amanda

I didn't respond to clomid either. They said I had "weak ovulation" on the highest dosage.

Ana, They want me back in the morning for ultrasound. I'll probably be going to blood just in time for you to be there too! :lol: I go at 7... but last time they were late.

Beta came back at 262.4! They're going to call me back with a day and time for an u/s in two weeks! I'm assuming I'd found out then how many babies I have. But from the research I've done on beta levels, it looks like only one.

I've been a little concerned the last couple of days because I've had some minor cramping on my right side. I was worried that because it was only on the right that it was ectopic. Yup, I'm a little paranoid and panicky these days :lol: Sue, the nurse said everything sounds fine and totally normal, but that if it got worse than to call and they'd have me come in sooner.

weeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's fabulous!!!!!

Sorry I missed you this morning.. Barbara was late and didn't come in until 7:20...then
she spent about 30 minutes on me..

I had ALOT of follicles. I was trying to count... but I lost it at around 15.. I do know that the right side had 11 measurable. eek!

My lining was 10.5 and TRIPLE STRIPED!!!! She said the stripe was nice and clear and perfect!

I go back on Saturday morning and will probably trigger sat night.

Ana that is so awesome! I am so very very happy for you! LIke your nurse said cramping could be very normal. I had tons of cramping when I was pg with Riley. For the entire first trimester it felt like I was going to get af at any time. I'm sure that is all it is.:) And yes you will get to see how many little beans you have in there when you get your first u/s. I had one at 5w5d and could see a yolk a week later there was our little guy with a heartbeat and you could see the buds for legs and arms. I can't wait to see your u/s pics!!

Brenda that is so awesome. Good luck honey. I'll try to get on here this weekend to check how it went!

Nothing new for me, just waiting for af. I'm a bit late. Took a hpt on Tuesday and it was bfn. I know about when I o'd so we'll see. Our appointment for our RE is tomorrow I should get my gluco script then. Hopefully this will work.

Sarah

Ana the cramping is very normal - even on one side. My REs office told me that if I ever got worried about it to sit with my feet slightly elevated for a little bit and relax. They said the only cramping that was of concern was if it was accompanied by red bleeding.

And you think you're paranoid and panicky now...it's only going to get worse over the next month!! Think about this...you've been to the REs office every other day....every day...then NOTHING!! For TWO WHOLE WEEKS you don't get to see a doctor and there's no blood levels to reassure you. And THEN you wait for the next u/s at 9 weeks (or so) and to get released to your OBGYN and that three weeks is MURDER!!

Then it's even worse because you go to your OBGYN who (GASP!!) treats you like every other PG woman she sees!! :eek: :lol: It'll happen, won't it Sarah??? You mark my words... :rotflmao: But you just remember that we are here to help remind you that you are PG and that it's all NORMAL!!! :aok:

Brenda, I am SO happy for you!!! :yippee: I'm SO glad you are here, so glad you went to the new center, so glad that this centerand docs feel so much better for you, so glad that you are getting MUCH better results this time!! Can't wait to hear all the good news on Saturday!!

Oh yeah...and I LOVE your pic!!! What a beautiful gal!!

Ana the cramping is very normal - even on one side. My REs office told me that if I ever got worried about it to sit with my feet slightly elevated for a little bit and relax. They said the only cramping that was of concern was if it was accompanied by red bleeding.

And you think you're paranoid and panicky now...it's only going to get worse over the next month!! Think about this...you've been to the REs office every other day....every day...then NOTHING!! For TWO WHOLE WEEKS you don't get to see a doctor and there's no blood levels to reassure you. And THEN you wait for the next u/s at 9 weeks (or so) and to get released to your OBGYN and that three weeks is MURDER!!

Then it's even worse because you go to your OBGYN who (GASP!!) treats you like every other PG woman she sees!! :eek: :lol: It'll happen, won't it Sarah??? You mark my words... :rotflmao: But you just remember that we are here to help remind you that you are PG and that it's all NORMAL!!! :aok:

Suzi is so right! I just went through some major paranoia myself. I feel like a total freak, but having lost so many pregnancies & getting such frequent appts during IVF I think being a freak is a bit normal. I had some weird pressure & what may have been cramping several nights ago. I called the doc's office but they never got back to me with anything all that conclusive. Needless to say, I saw my OB today (instead of 2 weeks from now). Heard the heartbeat with a doppler. Totally relieved. Well, today I'm relieved. Not sure how I will feel tomorrow or next week with whatever symptom or twitches I have. PG after IVF &/or loss is absolutely crazy making!

Thanks for making me feel better. I've been so nervous the last few days. I haven't even mentioned it to Justin because I didn't want to get him nervous either and besides, he's too busy worrying about triplets. He's been such a wreck about it :lol:

Brenda, I'm so excited for you! I hope you'll be sharing your great news with us in a couple of weeks! I'm really happy that you like NEMC. I don't know what it was like where you were before, but I couldn't imagine being anywhere else. They've been so good to me there.

Pam, WOW, you're already 10 wks! Seems like yesterday that you were making your announcement!

Sarah, hope AF stays away and you get some good news in the next couple of days.

Suzi, I'm already dreading the next couple of weeks. I already told Justin that I *might* just call them and say I'm worried just so they can check me and make sure everything is okay :lol:

HOORAY Ana and Brenda! It's so nice to see good news!!!!
Suzi, as usual, has said it perfectly! (I can only hope that I'm as wise as Suzi some day...).

Amanda

:lol: Suzi is right. We all went thru that. You really get used to having such great attention and when it's gone it is so hard to not think about it. When I was pg with Riley(and I had never had a m/c then) I would check for blood every time I went to the bathroom until I was 30 weeks.:blush: Now that we've had 5 m/c's I can't even imagine what I'll be like!:lol: I know it is so hard but try to relax sweetie!

Pam yeah for the h/b! That is so awesome, best sound in the worly huh!

Today is our Re appointment!! Hopefully I'll be on gluco tonight!

Sarah

Sarah - I hope your appt went well!

Amanda

Oooh RATS!! I was hoping Sarah had posted!!! :lol:

(posted from blog because I'm exhausted!)


Ultrasound this mornng showed a tiny bit of fluid
behind my ovaries, but all of the follicles were
still in tact, so it's not ovulation. I could have been
just that my E2 doubled in 2 days and caused some air
to get into the cul-de-sac. Who knows!

So... there were just a couple follicles around 20mm,
and TONS right around 16-17mm. So I continue
the meds tonight, take my antagon in the morning..
then trigger at 8:15 tomorrow night. Retrieval
will be at 8:15am Tuesday morning.

I have to weigh myself several times a day starting
today. (because of the fluid). And if I gain ANY
weight, I'm to page the doctor. I don't know what they
would do.. other than trigger me immediately and make
me lay flat until retrieval.... or perhaps they'd put me
in the hospital and remove the fluid.

I have NO IDEA how I've managed to hyperstim BEFORE
retrieval and BEFORE releasing any eggs, but ok.
All I know is I'm taking it super easy and drinking fluids
and praying.


O and the lining............ still hanging in at 10mm.

Just read your blog!! :lol: Hang in there....just a few more days!! :yippee:

yeah I think I'm staying in bed tomorrow. :lol: I did take a nap this afternoon... and slept for 6 hours. :lol: DH woke me up "is it time for me to ejaculate yet?" ROFL.

The nurse today.. "when's the last time your husband ejaculated?"

me: "How the hell am I suppose to know that? :lol: I try to stay out of his
business"

she was laughing hysterically.

:rotflmao: The things us IVFers have to consider...!!!

:lol: that is so funny!

Good on the bunches of follies. It's a good thing you'll take it easy. Hopefully everything will be ok from here on out. Lots of bed rest is such a good idea. Keep all those follies safe. :) Good luck!!!

Our appointment went very well. Our Re agreed to put me on gluco for us to try on our own.(he is always happy to help us try on our own without IVF) I will be monitored very closely thru my cycle to make sure everything looks good. Which makes me feel much better. They did a liver test to make sure I can tollerate the gluco and I'll get that back on monday. I see no problem with that though.

We did discuss our next ivf and we will be doing the PGD. He said we were a perfect case for it. We need time to save that kind of money up so it won't be until the fall or maybe later we'll see. I hope not though! I will be on gluco for that too he would have done that even if I didn't ask for it. Also if my cysts don't go away on their own I will need to have them removed before the IVF. I get a lot of pain with them when I O now with just one follie. The pain really gets bad sometimes so I know that during stim time it would really be bad. He suggested getting them removed before hand. I really don't want another surgery so we'll see. If we can get pg on our own and hold that baby I can avoid it. Keep your fingers crossed!!

Oh and still no af. I don't know what is going on. I am several days late. I'll test again tomorrow if nothing by then. This is just so weird!

Sarah

Brenda - Hang in there!
Sarah - I hope this works for you!
Nothing going on with me. I think I'm getting close to Oing but it's so late in the cycle already so I'm not sure it'll work. We'll see!

Amanda

Hi! I'm a little worried today. I woke up to some brown spotting. Although, I know that its normal. I'm still nervous. I'm also having this pain on my right side when I inhale. It's sorta near my ribs. I don't know if they're related but I'm still concerned. I called my doctor as soon as I saw the spotting but no one called me back which I'm pretty upset about. I know it's Sunday, but I also know that they are in the office until 2pm so someone should have called. I'll call them again first thing in the morning. Please say a prayer for us. I'm so worried we're going to lose this baby.

Ana, hang in there. Brown spotting isn't anything to get too worked up over - it's probably just the embryo misplacing blood as the placenta begins to develop at the site where the embryo attached to the uterine wall. :bighug: You need to stay calm and as stress-free as possible for that baby!! :nod:

I'm sorry they didn't call you back Ana. I know it can be so scary to see and feel that right now. Just try to relax(I know easier said then done) and try to remain calm. Just put your feel up and try to think of anything but that. Maybe take a nice bath or listen to some relaxing music. Read a magazine, anything. You don't want any stress hormones effecting that little bean! Like Suzi said it isn't out of the ordinary to see and feel that. Doesn't put your mind at ease I know. But it is best to try to stay positive. :) If you need anything we are here for you. I'm sure everything will be ok. I'm sending my hugs and thoughts with you. Along with plenty of SBV's!!

Sarah

Ana, I'm sure the spotting is nothing!!! Did you call the switchboard and ask them to page the Repro Endo Doc on call? I believe Dr. Keefe is on call this weekend. They call him and he gets right on the line with you.

So get a load of this...

http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b5da25b3127cce90aa9e4220ca00000016108AaNmjdy3ZNU (javascript:openSlideWin(1, '67b0de21b35328b8458e', 0);)

The line is darker than it scanned in at. Still light but a little darker than this one. I can't believe it. I must have O'd way later than my body was telling me it did. I'll call the Re this morning to get in for blood. I am so nervous. I hope this bean will stick. I can use all the SBV's you've got! Today I will just take it easy and relax. I'm not doing anything to risk this!!

Sarah

Wow Sarah! I'm so happy for you! I'm praying for a sticky baby!

Sarah, :pray: I'm already busy!!!

The nurse called me this morning and said exactly what our wonderful expert, Suzi, said. Although I knew deep down brown spotting is normal, I still freaked out because it was actually happening to me! It's going to be a long 35 weeks! :lol:

Ana thanks!! So how do you feel today? Any spotting? We all know deep down spotting can be normal. But there is always that chance so we worry. I would have felt the same way. Especially since all my m/c started with spotting(pink and red not so much brown) So I totally can relate to your fears. After all you went thru so much to get here. I'm glad the little bean is staying put!

Suzi you are too sweet! It just makes me tear up to think that we are pg. All kinds of emotions are running thru my head. I'm trying to focus only on the good ones but those bad ones are just at the back of my head. I hope that we'll get thru this ok. I'll just take it day by day. Each day we stay pg is a great day!!

Sarah

Ana, I know it's hard but it DOES get better - honestly. I remember using the analogy once to explain it to someone else in your position: eventually you will put your raw IF feelings into a box and put it high on a shelf; they will all still be there but they are contained. You will be able to put them away soon enough - I promise.

Sarah, I am very happy for you! I pray that this baby sticks and that between the gluco and progesterone you are PG for 9 more months!! :nod:

SARAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMGOMGOMG..... when do you go in for bloods??????
EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE EEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:lol: Brenda that is what's going on in my head!

Suzi thanks!! I hope so too. I haven't acutally started the gluco yet. I was supposed to start it today. When they call me back with my numbers they'll let me know if I should fill the prescriptions or if we'll do without. At this point I want whatever will keep this little one happy for good. :)

I went this morning for blood. I go to a new office they recently opened that is much closer to our new house. Since it is new and only one RE is out of that office it is always dead in there. I can get an appointment for labs or u/s whenever I want to which is nice. And because they are slower(the main office is a zoo) They really know me better. When I call they know who I am. And the girls play with Riley while I'm getting my blood drawn. He just loves them. So my nurse will call me this afternoon. I know I'm pg so I'm not worried about the call. I just hope my progesterone is high enough. I went off it for a few days because I was sure I wasn't pg.(I took some tests) I took it again last night so I should be good. The nurse there said it shouldn't be a problem. I hope not. It was only for a few days. I don't know my due date yet. Since my lmp was 2/28 and I know I O'd late I'm not sure. I guess they figure it out by when we BD and if the baby holds on they'll see on the u/s. I hope this all works out. I so badly want this baby. More than anything in the world.

I'll keep you all posted! Thanks for all the great posts and prayers. We need them so badly right now. :)

Sarah

Sarah~ I'm busy too! :pray: May your prayers be answered. :bighug:

Kimberly

from my journal:

Well the RE's office called with not so great news. I am pg with HCG of 17:) but my progesterone is only 8. not good at all. I took two prometrium last night and I just took another two.(per their instructions) They want me in again tomorrow am to check it again. if it is still low but I'm still pg they probably give me another form to kick it up higher. Damn progesterone! I've had mild cramping here and there but nothing bad so I just hope that is the normal cramping not like the other five. I'm kicking my feet up and just relaxing and staying very calm. Hopefully my progesterone will jump nice and high now. I'll be gone all day tomorrow so I won't be able to update you all until the evening. I've had no spotting at all not even a tad.:) so that is awesome. Sometimes my cervical area is sore and that is how two of my m/c's started but I'm pretty sure I had some spotting by then and I just checked and I'm all free and clear. Could just be some moving around. At least that is what I'm telling myself right now. I've been giving the litte one pep talks. God if someone could hear me they'd lock me up!:lol: But i just rub my belly telling the little one to stay in place. We'll see if it worked in the next few days.

Sarah

:pray:

:pray:

Sarah!! Congrats! I will be praying your little one stays put.

:crossfing

I hope Ana and Sarah have started a string of good, healthy, perfect, sticky babies for everyone here. :)

Congratulations and good luck Sarah! :)

Thinking of you and still keeping you in my :pray:'s

OMG Sarah! CONGRATS and I'm sending lots of prayers and SBV!!!
Ana - Sending prayers and SBV for you, too!

Amanda

I started having mild cramping every once in a great while. But also some stronger uncomfortable pains in my lower uterus especially on my left side. I am hoping this is just the baby settling in. I have had no spotting. This am when I looked there was the teeniest little bit of slight colored cm. But not even much to think about. Could have been from anything it was so little. So I'm not throwing in the towel now. But I am very concerned we might lose this one because of the damn progesterone. One of my m/c had 8 as the level and I m/c soon after. But now I have strong progesterone and I will go in again this morning for another draw if it is still too low they'll add more. I took mine early yesterday and all of a sudden during dinner I couldn't see straight. I laid on the couch and I couldn't stay awake so I wobbled my way up the stairs to bed. I usually take one at a time so it makes me tired and sometimes dizzy but this was crazy. Good think I normally take them at bed time! So I went to bed at 7:30 and never looked back.:lol:

Hopefully today's draw will be over 16. I still have no pg signs but that doesn't mean anything either. I think I'd feel a tad easier if I did but I know it doesn't mean somethings wrong. So we'll just wait and see. Brandon even told the baby to stay in place while he rubbed my belly. How cute is that! I love it when he says and does things like that.:)

Sarah

Brenda, good luck today!

Brenda, I am thinking of you today!! Can't wait to hear the results! :crossfing

Sarah~:pray: "Stay in place, stay in place, keep growing, keeping growing"

:pray: B you'll be in my thoughts all day!! :hug1:

BTW, I have started a new thread for April/May/June

http://www.onceuponalife.com/forums/showthread.php?p=448740#post448740

So how did it go Brenda? Saying lots of good eggies vibes for you!!



As for me from my journal:


:rahrah:I'm still Pregnant!!!:rahrah:

I was out all day watching MIL's daycare so I left them brandon's work number. She left him a message saying my hcg was 28.5 but never said what my progesterone was. She just said to keep doing what I'm doing so that has to mean it went up. They were ready to give me suppositories and they didn't call it in so that must mean I'm at 16 or near that. By the time I got the message they turned their phones off so I'll call in the am to see for sure. My next draw is on Thursday. The spotting has stopped now. I had it some the first half of today(never a lot) but it is gone for the last several hours. I'm so happy we made it thru today. So we will keep taking it day by day. Hopefully we'll get another 8 more months of this. Today I really started to feel like this might be ok. While I always try to stay positive, I also need to be realistic in the fact that the chances of us bringing home a baby are really poor. Doesn't mean it can't happen it just means i need to keep that in the back of my mind to prepare myself. So right now I'm on cloud 9! I just keep telling that little one to hold on and praying my heart out. :)

Sarah

Sarah, that's great!! If you did the math (which I did 'cause I'm a numbers gal!) you are doubling every 31 hours - AHEAD OF SCHEDULE!!! :yippee: That's AWESOME!! :aok:

I know I was so happy to hear 28.5. Now getting thru tomorrow. My problem is making it thru that second test two days apart. I am so anxious to hear what it will be tomorrow. Hopefully nice and high!

I just can't believe that at the end of next week or the beginning of the week after that I might get to see our bean. I really hope this is it. I so badly want to have this baby!

Sarah

Sarah, that is so great! I pray that your little one holds on. Mine needs a buddy!

I would love that Ana!

From my journal:


How does 86 sound!:thumbsup:

Yes that is right it went from 28.5 to 86 in two days! Woo Hoo!! My progesterone is still lower than they want at 13.7 so they are adding another pill a day. So I'll take two at night and one in the am. Oh I am so so happy. I acutally started shaking and crying when I got off the phone. This is the first time I've made it past the second big draw on to my third.(I'm not counting Tues since it was only one day after the first one) How cool is that! This might actually be ok. Thank you all so very much for all of your thoughts and prayers. They really worked! It means the WORLD to me to have you all behind me supporting me. I guess we'll be waiting until our first u/s to tell our families. Which might be as early as the end of next week. Gosh I just can't even believe this. I think deep down I really didn't think things could be ok. And so far they are! Awesome.

Sarah

HOORAY SARAH!

Amanda

Yay Sarah!

Hi Sarah,


I just read your story and it was encouraging for me. I probably don't have all the language, but here goes.

I had one cycle with 9 embies at 5 day Blast, but after PDG, went to 2. Had both inseminated, but neither one implanted.

Now, I am on 2 cycle with almost same results. 9 embies, 7 to 5 day blast and 4 after PGD. 2 inseminated and am waiting for my test this Friday.

I am anxious as it appears, today being my 10th day since fertilization that I am naseous all the time. I carried around a 7up can all day and kept sitting down feeling a bit wheezy. None of this happened last time that I recall. Any chance this could be caused by 'implanting process'?

I am really hoping it is!!:blush1:

Love to hear whether it is realistic to be naseous so soon after fertilization and insemination. My fertilization was April 15, insemination, April 20 and today is April 25th. thoughts??

Thanks for sharing your story! I hope you are able to get going again after your move?

Hi Monique, WELCOME!!! I wish you the best of luck on your cycle! Sounds like you are having some symptoms - whether it's from PIO (or suppositories) or m/s... :dunno: As far as being implantation-related...probably not. Implantation spotting does occur infrequently - that is typically around day 8 after retrieval.

Come join us in our current IVF thread: http://www.onceuponalife.com/forums/showthread.php?t=16612

We'd love to get to know you!